What is the perfect size for a girl?

Question

I am really aware of how tall, slim and beautiful other girls are compared to me. Although i get complemented i still feel really down. My boyfriend tries to reassure me but when we first met he went on and on about his ex girlfriend and had many pictures of very slim, blonde women. At the time i was bigger than i am now (a UK size 14) and became very depressed about how i looked..although ive got down to a size 10..and aparently look "beautiful"i still feel i am no good, ugly and fat!

i sound really depressed but im just interested to find out mens opinions on girls looks..ie do they like the slim tall girls who dress really tart?

Im from the uk and am 20 years old. x

Answer 1

Size 10 really is fine.....

Answer 2

You sound fine! If you really feel bad about yourself then how about a makeover?

Answer 3

many guys have differnt opinions of what their "perfect" girl is. Your guy has his perfect girl. He likes you the way you are, so why do you feel the need to change?

Lauren <3

Answer 4

That's the thing, there isn't a perfect size for women.  We are all made differently and aren't you glad?  If we all looked the same that would be very boring.  That doesn't mean you should put down thin girls.  some can't help it, they may just have a small frame or high metabolism. Every guy has their own opinion on what is the perfect size so you may get a lot of varied answers here.  Be confident about your size and trust your boyfriend, he's probably right.  =)

Answer 5

I'd say a size 16 (American) is the perfect size on a woman

Answer 6

no comment except juust be confident and being who u want willmake u happy good luck  

Answer 7

Guys like all kinds of girls.  The same guy who likes a slim blonde can also find you attractive.  Guys talk big and act like they only consider a certain size or "look" when finding a girl attractive, but really one man can find a huge variety of women attractive.  A preference is just that, a preference.  It doesn't mean others who don't meet that criteria are unattractive.  For example, I prefer dark haired guys, but the hottest guy I've ever seen is blond.  It's not a big deal really.  

As long as you are at a reasonable healthy weight, people will find you attractive.  Don't try to be something you're not or isn't natural, you might look great at size 10 or 12, and look really bad and unhealthy if you get any smaller.  People have different bodies and what works for one person doesn't work for another.  There's nothing wrong with taking care of your appearance and losing weight if you think you would look and feel better, but make sure you are being realistic and doing it to please yourself, not just a guy.

Answer 8

The perfect size??  It's the one she's most happy with.

Seriously.

I like women of any size.  Personality and attitude matter far, far more.

(Though I must admit being partial to 'curves'.  Which is a good thing 'cause my lady has great curves.)

Answer 9

Well hey there :)

You're size sounds just perfect.

I'm not really sure what tart means but it's proven that a majority of men like women who are neither obese nor stick thin. Men prefer petite women who are right in the middle with their weight, and you sound to be just that. Embrace you're body and don't worry so much, the man you want to impress the most (your boyfriend) thinks your gorgous!