What is the point of having a stripper at your bachelor/bachlorette party?

Question

I dont agree with it and thank God I have a man thats not gonna have any at his party.

Answer 1

It is the whole "last night as a single woman/man" so the guys/girls take them out to party.

My husband and I when talking about this said we do not mind having strippers if that is what our guys and girls are planning for us, because we know we love each other and know that we will not cheat with someone at our last night as a single person party.

Funnily enough, our bachelor/bachelorette party was quite interesting.  My husband and his guys and myself and our best man's wife all went out drinking at a bar.  BM's wife and I were the "bachelorette party" part of the club and all his guys and a friend of ours was the "bachelor party" part.  We all had a blast, and every time I think of that night, I'm glad that that is how it went.

FYI, all strippers are not "s****s" or s***s.  

And if the bride or groom DOES go and sleep with them, the bride and groom only have themselves to blame, and frankly be glad it came out before you end up being legally wed, because who knows what would have happened if he/she cheated after the "I do's"!

I trust him, and he trusts me.

Answer 2

I guess when it was first started it was sort of an ode to never being single again, never seeing someone else (other than your spouse) in person naked.

But nowadays, people get divorced, separated and cheat at the drop of a hat so I don't see any reason for it.  

My husband and I decided we didn't want a bachelor/bachelorette party.  I'm all the woman he needs.

Answer 3

It's for FUN!

I don't want one at mine, because that would just be so awkward and embarrassing, but I could care less what my fiance does at his.  I trust him completely, a naked lady isn't going to make him change his behaviour for a night.

Answer 4

it's just some thing that you do before you get married ,like the last time you see some one else naked before getting  married .

Answer 5

its soposed to be FUN i personally might not have one at mine but i already gave my fiance permission for one i dont think it is that bad my fiance LOVES me and i trust him completly and he trusts me with having one at mine (i just have not made up my mind yet cause i think that it is a little pointless for a girl to have a naked man in front of her rubbing his balls all over you.)  its a little on the nasty side. i rather just get with my girls and have a good time.

Answer 6

It started as an "one last hurrah!" and its dumb. It just makes you feel bad that your significant other needs to go see some naked person shaking their stuff in their face right before you get married. S****y.  

Answer 7

When my husband and I got married, we had a party together with all of our friends and family there.  No strippers or anything, but had he said his pals wanted to throw him a party complete with strippers...whatever.  If you are engaged to someone, I would certainly hope that you trust that person enough not to sleep with someone else, even if that person is shaking what God or lots of dollars in a g-string gave them in your man's face.  Married people go to strip clubs, too, you know.  

Answer 8

I don't know the point of it!! My soon-to-be isn't having any either!! We're actually celebrating our parties together!!! It is a stupid tradition that needs to end...all it does is cause infidelity before the marriage is even set in stone...

Answer 9

Thats madness. Why don't they think for a moment if our girls go somewhere out and sit there and enjoy watching naked men dancing in front of them, how would we feel. I am against this kind of party. How would my girl feel when I will do something weird like that.

Answer 10

I agree with you. I never understood the whole, "lets go out and look at naked strangers because we're getting married tomorrow" thing.  Some people view it as one last night of freedom. That makes no sense to me because I'm already in a committed relationship and therefore not "free" in the first place.

Thankfully for me, my fiance isn't into strippers. I wouldn't be okay with it in the least if he was.

However, I'm not the type to dictate to strangers what their opinions should be. If others want to do that sort of thing, then have at it. It just isn't for us.  

Answer 11

I personally think its stupid.  thanks but why would I want some nasty diseased s***k dancing for my husband and why would he want that for himself.  I have known a few strippers...one is a friend of a friend who had her child taken away and has at least 2 known stds.  the other was my brothers gf and she is dead now from a drug overdose.  wow...great people to spend the night before your wedding with.  my husband and I both agreed no strippers at the party or in the marriage all together.  if we want to see someone naked and dancing around we can do that for eachother for free.  my party was at a local bar with my friends shooting pool and having some drinks.  my husbands was at the pub with my dad and my dads buddies from work eating pizza and wings and drinking beer.  thats the kind of party we wanted...something fun.  dirty strippers are not fun.

Answer 12

i do not agree either. They think that is the only day in your whole life where you can see a naked woman or man?? well... They did not see a naked woman or man when they had a relationship ... so...what's the point?!

;p people are weird

Answer 13

Uh, naked women? Women who will dance and take off their clothes? Women who will rub up against them naked? Did I mention naked women?

Answer 14

i agree with you. i think it opens an opportunity for something to happen that might ruin your marriage. i don't want strippers and i don't want my fiance to have them either

Answer 15

My husband and I did not have a party at all.  We just hung out with the bridal party.

Some people believe that it's the bride and groom's last night out as a single person.  This doesn't make sense to me because you're not single if you're engaged.  

Hiring strippers to attend your bachelor/bachelorette party is disrespectful to me.  Strippers are S****y and I wouldn't want them gyrating on me or my husband.  I'm so glad that he feels the same!!!