What is the healthy point, when I should cut all contact with my sister? Our mother died when we were really little, and my dad raised his 3 daughters alone. I am the oldest, and the sister concerned is the youngest. The middle sister I believe is a total narcissist, but I have learnt to accept her behavior, because it is predictable.
The youngest sister and I, have always been close. I always thought that we were 2 peas in a pod, until a couple of years ago.
Then about 3 years ago, she announced that she had eloped - I was really hurt to be excluded. Then she had difficulties falling pregnant (I have 2 kids). Anyway, all I have ever done is treat her with total kindness - exactly the way I would want someone to treat me. For example, I loaned her her house deposit, I put together a special book about our mother by writing to lots of family/friends, I have given her lots of money, go to the chemist when she is sick, etc. This list could be a mile long - I cannot emphasis enough, what I have done for her.
My husband thinks that she is jealous - she really hates me. She keeps talking about "how I am not grateful for the things she has done for me". There have been periods of up to a year, when we haven't talked at all.
Today she had her 1st baby - although officially I haven't been told.
This question is unrelated to the baby though.
I just feel so bitter, that I totally hate her. I have nothing in my heart for her, but hate. What should I do?
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