What is the possible meaning behind my dream change?

Question

I use to have very low confidence and low self-esteem. It was very terrible and I also had some depression moods. During this time though, I always had dreams that my dream guy would fall head over heels for me and that I'd be married or be in a very happy relationship.

But, I started exercising and now I'm fit and have confidence and good self-esteem. I feel good for the first time in a long time. I'm not conceded, I'm just confident and happy. Well now, I just have rejection dreams. I haven't had a happy dream in a long time. I'll have dreams where I meet my dream guy, but he has zero interest in me. I don't understand. And it's not like my personality has changed to where I have become an ugly person on the inside. I'm exactly the same, just fit.

So - when I wasn't fit and had low self-esteem I'd have dreams I'd be with my dream guy and he'd be crazy about me. Yet, now that I have the self confidence I've always wanted and have become fit and healthier, I only have dreams that I do find my dream guy but he has no interest in me.

So just any interpretation of this will be appreciated. I'd just like to get some sort of understanding.

Answer 1

sounds like you started right and on the right track, only, you have to let go thinking about the meaning of dreams...it is really pointless

Answer 2

this is just a shot, but maybe deep down you're afraid they will only be interested in the outside package?

It sounds like you've done some awesome things with your life!

But there could be some of those old fears still lurking way back there,

you know?

Answer 3

Before you used to want to needed so your dreams gave you that. Now that you expect that you worry about not being needed and your dreams are showing that