What is the psychology behind a woman who would sleep with a married man?

Question

I swear this woman seeked me out and is a home wrecker. Now I only regret falling for her charms and cheating on my wife. How do those kind of women become evil like that ? seriously

Answer 1

OH, so its HER fault that you dropped your drawers, broke your marriage vows, disrespected your wife, your marriage and yourself?

Grow up and take responsibilty for your own actions.  Just because your mistress didn't give a d**n didn't mean that you shouldn't have as well.  JERK!

Answer 2

Stop while you are ahead.  My husband was targetted by one of these sharks.  She wouldn't leave him alone and stalked him day and night.  Like most men in this situation he was flattered and manipulated by her.  Well, she finally got herself pregnant and he said he had to leave me because he felt sorry for her.  Now he phones me several times a day complaining about how miserable he is and how he is so sorry for what he did.  Too late now and I am getting on with my life.   He gave up everything for her and what did he gain?  Those who choose to cheat should ask themselves if what the are getting is really worth what they are giving up.

Answer 3

you're weak and she's insecure.  

Answer 4

your in the wrong as much as she is. Move on.  

Answer 5

You should regret it because you are WEAK.

and she is just a dirty s***k - Bottom line

Answer 6

umm, thats really stupid to sleep with married people. i would guess its because there desperate, attention seeker, needs approval, and had bad childhood. Also it was wrong of you to not resist tempation. You dedicated yourself to your wife and you have brocken that by cheating on her. I suggest you stop if you want to keep your marriage.

Answer 7

lol. Just blame it on your d-ck and leave the other woman out of it. She wasn't married.  

Answer 8

well that's the problem right there in you marriage.  BLAME GAME.....it's your fault, accept your responsibility to your own actions.  The pshychology of a woman that sleep with a married man is weak, and insecure.  Any woman that feel worthy would want a man of her own, b/c she knows she offers way more than a 15 min scew, wet behind and fast food.  For the married men that cheat on their wives too suffer from low self-esteem and pure selfish, you showed that via additional Details "yep, I blame....NOT ME I'M ALWAYS RIGHT"  You need to change your mind, your mental state, work on self-control, get in your Bible and ask God to condition your heart and repair your marriage  

Answer 9

The better question is where can I find her!!!!!!!

Answer 10

People like that are selfish and in denial. They think their demands come first and they just remove all thoughts of consequences from their minds to enjoy the moment. They may have had bad experiences and want to compensate themselves, take "revenge" and since the person who did it to them isn't available, they do it to somebody else. And please, go for a reality check - nobody made you do it. Don't you be in denial as well.

Answer 11

So what does that say about you?  NOBODY can MAKE anybody DO anything.  You wanted it, you did it.  It's the whole "you can take a horse to the water but you can't make him drink".  She drew you to the water but it was your choice to walk away and say "I'm not thirsty" or take a sip of her venim!

But to answer your question..., women seduce men for all kinds of reasons:

1) Cuz it's just so easy to do...some of yall are such suckas.

2) They have low self-esteem so they like the thrill of seduction

3) They hate men and have started living a life of "pay back"

4) They just hate for people to be happy so they aim to wreck it.

5) They fear committed relationships but enjoy the thrill of temporary flings.

6) They are just plain immature and haven't grown up and discovered the true meaning of life and love.

7) They have been hurt so much in life by men that they see them and their wives as a game.  They lost all emotional & moral connection.

8) They just plain don't see anything wrong with it.

My advice to you ---- next time do like the bible says "FLEE fornication"..............run, run like the wind!

Answer 12

they typically have low self- esteem and lack respect for themselves and therefore cannot respect others and their marriage. the low self esteem shows in their ability to be with someone even though they know they are taken. women who are strong and confident do not put up with a situation like this. its either only them or not at all. these other women would rather have something than not have anything and so they put themselves throught the torment and torture of having to share.  but honestly you were the one who was married, so you need to forget about what she did and focus on the mistake you made. you should also ask what is in the psychology of a man who will cheat, those are the questions i think you shoudl really be asking.

Answer 13

you're funny.  no one can make you do anything you didn't want to.