What is the purpose of a conquest?

Question

I don't understand why guys spend so much time and effort into a conquest with a girl and then once it is fulfilled they just slam the door on that and never talk to the girl again. I mean a whole year waiting for a conquest to be fulfilled with someone doesn't seem worth it to me. what's the purpose of a conquest? Do you not feel bad for using a girl that way? Did that girl mean anything to you other than a means to fulfil your conquest?

Answer 1

guys just like to put "notches on their belts" so to speak. then they can brag and share "war stories" with their buddies.  its really sad actually, i mean ya ur wasting all that time and breaking someones heart. I would feel terrible if i ever did that.

Answer 2

For some ( men and women ) it is all about the chase..sorry to say

For some it is about the love and friendships you build along the way

forgive and forget about the idiots....life is to short for hate and pain

Look for the beauty in every day and enjoy it....do not let anything or anyone bring you down

Answer 3

I guess it's the Don Juan complex but after giving it some considerable thought, I'd say it's mostly the male ego. I've been guilty of this many times, maybe a hundred but I'm not proud of it now that I'm older. It was all in vain.