What is the purpose of life if you don't have s*x?

Question

My wife won't have s*x with me. I don't why I even get up in the morning. I've got a good corporate job, my kids are in good public schools, and everything we own is paid off, including the house. I really don't feel I need anything better, like "kitchen remodeling" or vacations, etc. If I'm not getting any s*x, should I just bag off for the next 20 years...? Milk what I've got, visit yahoo during the day, drink beer and surf p**n at night, maybe work out for relaxation. What's the point of trying to do anything else if my wife won't have s*x?

Answer 1

Gosh, is s*x all you have in common with your wife? s*x is important and fun but, it's not all there should be to a marriage. Maybe she's just not into you anymore. Do you put any effort into getting her interested in s*x or do you think you deserve it just because you're such a wonderful guy? If there's nothing in it for her, she's not going to be interested. Try romancing her like you did before you got married and I'll bet your s*x life improves.

Answer 2

Theirs nothing wrong with wanting s*x. I believe its a very important part of any relationship. The chemistry has to be there. Point being, maybe she just doesn't like it. This sounds mean, but just tell her if she doesn't respond to your request , you will be getting it somewhere else. Maybe then she will open her eyes and realize what she might be losing.

Answer 3

If your wife refuses to have s*x with you at all, talk to her and go get counseling together.  Obviously, if she is withholding s*x from you, there is a problem in your marriage.  

Answer 4

Only you can work out the purpose of your life. I am g*y and have spent years trying to work out the purpose of my life as I don't have kids. We are lucky if we get to spend 70 years on this planet, so I have made it my purpose to find put as much as I can about what is under our feel and how the planet is made..it works for me

Answer 5

There must be a reason she doesn't want to.  Talk to her have her explain her reasons.   If they are good reasons,  and there is something you can do to better things.  Do it.

Answer 6

If she was like that when you were first married, then I'd have to say it could very well be a very low libido issue, relating back to a hormonal issue. Is she willing to see a doctor at all to have her hormone levels checked? That's the physical side.

On the mental side, esp. given that she doesn't want to talk about it, is there a possibility that she was abused as a child? That could also explain a lot.

The last possibility, although this doesn't seem to be the issue since she has been like this from the beginning, is that she's having an affair.

I would honestly vote for getting her in to talk to her doctor, although she doesn't seem overly interested in resolving the situation.

I hate to say it, but with everything you've done and all that you have going for you and all that you've provided, I would have to walk away. You've tried very and and if she's not willing to work this out, there's not much you can do - she has to be willing to try. That's what marriage is about. And unfortunately, as a man, being intimate is a very, very important part of marriage - I couldn't be married without it, but that's just me.

Good luck.

Answer 7

Why don't you try figuring out why she doesn't want to have s*x instead of just excepting it.

Answer 8

She won't have s*x with you because you are just doing it for yourself and not for her. Try sending her flowers, doing the dishes, cooking for her, or God forbid, your own laundry!

Treat her with kindness and respect, and she'll respond positively.

Answer 9

Why won't she, Get it on the side

Answer 10

s*x is not everything, but it is a big part.  Please take the time and find out why she does not want s*x...and then seek help...She can do other things beside s*x to make you happy...  Work it out with your wife first before you start accepting or thinking about doing other things..

Answer 11

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Answer 12

i feel for you, i couldnt cope if my husbnad did this to me. we need more information has she always been like this?

Edit: right if she has always been like this it probably wont change. she might have been brought up to be ashamed about s*x and doesnt like it, she might have had some issues in the past etc. Also dont take this the wrong way i am only trying to help but if she is always after more and you have a good job could she just be after your money? If she is always like this then it might be something you cant change. you need to decide if you can live this way.

Answer 13

Have you actually tried talking to her about it and finding out why? It might be a problem that is resolvable.

Answer 14

Dump her.  See how fast she perks up when the threat of her gravy train dissappearing is thrown in her face.