What is the worst way someone has treated you- meaning friend, family, or boyfriend/girlfriend?

Question

for me its-

friend- sexual harrasment and assault-

cousin- sexual harrasment and assault-

family- verbal and physical abuse-

friends- backstabbing, lying, blackmail-

boyfriends- 2 of them- lying, cheating, deceiving, threatening me too!

what about you?

i haven't been so lucky in meeting good people!

Answer 1

i feel bad for you one of my friends friends kinda went through what you did but she was raped.

well 2 of my boyfriends were huggeee cheaters and a**holes and decieving.

my ex bestfriend is a dirty w***e bag s*ut and lies and i couldnt trust her and talks ****.

cousin a liar and steals my crapp

Answer 2

My story (below) here  is this Verbal, Emotional and Threatening harrasment. Though people fall short because they are sinners. I still dont trust them,.  God will not.let you down.  My  husband and I tried to help this couple that we where hanging with.I worked with the woman.  I was treated horribly by this really pale white woman I used to work with when she found out her husband liked me.( I DONT PLAY WITH MARRIED MEN) and there was nothing ever there on my part. PERIOD!

I never did anything to lead him on. He kept tryng to get with me. I knew whether I told her or not about it the same thing would of happened. She would have went crazy.either way whether I told her about it or not.  So I did not tell her.

I broke off the friendship and told her to get professional help. and turn to God. I would not help her anymore. She admitted she was jealous of me (because I am pretty and dark) and later commented that she could not believe how fat I was getting. After being treated badly by her,

(I have a thyroid condition) I told her I did not need her I am done with her and friends dont do that to one another and she went ballistic.She would sit and literally cry tears in her car. She lost a true friend that she would never get back.

Within 3 months she was fired for coming against me one more time, harrassing my phone and causing so much drama at work. I refused to argue/fight with her and left her several times screaming at the air. She just would try to find something to fight about anything period! (making her look crazy) people would ask me what is up with her? I would not fight because  I did not want people to get thier thrillls off of it. My job was more important then worrying about friends. I made up my mind I was never going to befriend people at work again.

I COMPLETELY quickly and EFFECTIVELY CUT her off out of my life. I would not talk to her about anything personal it was strictly business. I. When people would ask me about her  said "I dont know.I just come here to work. "  I would not speak of it to anyone at work but to my friends outside of work hubby and God. . That was a real firey trial not to retailiate and the place was run by perverted men who wanted to see 2 women fight. When I told the boss what she was doing (Harrasing me) they would just purposly put us together to work so they could get thier thrills. i felt threatened and not safe. As I was continually walking on eggshells.  she would argue about everything. I refused to.

The other people I thought where my friends abandoned me and would not speak to me when they could not beleive I was still there and she was not. (God does vindicate his own). Over time one of them would try to talk to me about something besides work I would not talk to them about anything besides work. I would not lead  onto them I was hurt. they just did not know what to think. Yet, they knew i had cut them off too.

It was not worth it anymore I was only there to make $

2 years later I quit that place. when my finances got in order. I have loved life eversince.

Yes as a christian I prayed for her but NO abuse is worth your sanity I dont think God wants us to forever be in a relationship that would zap us of life and vitality.

Answer 3

boyfriend - sexual assault

mother - abandoning, psychological abuse

friends - backstabbing, lying, sexual harassment, threatening

Answer 4

Well there are good people in the world. You have to make a point of finding them, and then offering to be as good a friend as you want back.

Just remember it's tough for a parent to let their child hang out with someone who comes from rough circles too.  After all you want to protect your kids too.  

So break away from the circle of friends you have...maybe just hang low for a while and just find some place (join a club or team or something) that has the kind of people you want to be around.

Answer 5

wow i feel bad for you.

the worst for me is

family - just some sibling rivalry

friends - lying, backstabbing, mean teasing

boyfriend - was really nice. i was the one who ended it (nicely)

cousins - are really awesome people!