What is this and why do i do it?

Question

i dunno why but what ever happens either whats been said to me or somebody else about me, i read too much into it.

e.g a guy wants to see how it goes with me but wants to start off as friends,and im worring about how he might be using me or just letting me down gently.

another one is my sister, ifeel sometimes she doesn't like me, but again its just me reading into things!

why do i do this and what steps can i take to look at things differently so i can go back to enjoying life again

Answer 1

it sounds to me like you have trust issues with people in general. maybe you have been hurt in the past by friends or family and that is the reason. you need someone to talk to about it.

best of luck.

Answer 2

You just need to switch your thinking from negativity into positivity. Focus on strengths rather than weaknesses. Google a short piece called Desiderata. It should help you a lot with this. Best wishes. UK

Answer 3

sounds like you lost your status in life.

avery pack has their alpha dog.  WHERE ARE YOU STANDING?

except who you are and lead the way thru your life, dont follow.

dont be more than you are.

whatch the company your with find the alpha dog of the moment and slowly become the 2 and lutenant then 2an move up slow, walk away when the getting is good, that leaves you on a good note.

soap operas are for tv

Answer 4

If you're enjoying things now, what does it matter what they actually think?  We're fundamentally unable to understand anyone else's perspective so we just have to rely on our own perceptions.  If he's nice to you and your sister is polite, go with it.  

It sounds like you should focus on being in the present moment.  Before and After aren't here.  All you have is the second you're in.  Good luck!