What is true love and do it last for ever?

Question

ive been married for 14yrs and now i think my marraige is coming to an end why? did she lie to me when she said till death do us part?yes or no?

Answer 1

Sometimes when couples are together for a long time they slowly stop communicating with each others needs.  You put kids in the mix and sometimes the focus becomes the kids and not so much each other.  It is subtle but before you know it there is just a routine and the in love feeling is not there.  The key to love and lasting relationships is keeping things fresh and being attentive to her needs as well as your own.  I actually read this great book called the 5 love languages that was an eye opener for my husband and I.  Good Luck

Answer 2

Love can be forever .sometimes ,yes it fades between people .but thats not anyones fault it's just that that person wasent who God had intended for you .and maybee.you truly didint love eachother as much as you thought you did .Love is so compicating.but you cant live without it .I hope this helps you .I know it wont solve your problem but maybee it helps a little..Pray and Gog will give you the answers . Bless you and your Wife  

Answer 3

I was with the same man for 30 years. (Been divorced 8). My advice: You have to be honest with each other, you and your spouse have to know the real person. People change and without communication, the relationship cannot adapt to those changes. The relationship has to be important in your life...important enough to fight for and work on every day. Good luck, don't give up on love in your future.

Answer 4

I feel the same as your do,..lol.. that's why I ended up in yahoo QA to get my answer...

Good luck!!

Answer 5

It's unlikely she has spent 14 years lying to you. People change. Your marriage isn't completely over, it may just need some help. If you are determined to save your marriage, first talk to your wife, ask her to open up.  I recommend a licensed marriage counselor before you call it quits.

Answer 6

Marriage is not divorce proof

Answer 7

I don't think she lied. Sometimes people just grow apart. It is all a matter of time. When you got married, I am sure she was promising til death do us part.. but as you go on, things change, people change and only time will tell what becomes of you two.

Answer 8

True love is where you love the other person more than you love yourself.  True love is where you continue to love that person, even when she has moved on.

I don't think she lied to you 14 years ago, because most of us want our marriage to work.  I am sorry that your marriage is not successful, but remember it is always better to have love and lost, than not love at all.

I hope you can put this all behind you soon, and start a new chapter in your life.

Good Luck!