What is up with him, does he hate me?

Question

every since i said i ' wanted to be friends' he cant even talk with me on IM

-every time i say hi he just goes =p

- i ask him to talk and he just puts the zip mouth face.

- then i go why and he puts the clenched teeth face lol.

- i said that he was a handsome guy just to make him talk and he just puts the cheering face on with the party hat.

- then i go you look like a singer. (because he really does) and he just winks.

he is a shy guy and he use to say all this mushy stuff on IM and now he just comes up with these stupid faces. it really annoys me.

i was set on busy status and he put his on busy too, so i duno if he was or not ( because he's ALWAYS just 'online') so i was like hmm..

i really do still like him. i was just scared and nervous because he was the first guy i liked so i said that. we hardly see each other, he doesnt SMS me, MSG me on MSN..

sooo i dont know what to do... does it seem like he hates me?

help please thx =)

Answer 1

well some guys dont like it when girls see them as friends. they want someone that will like them back and stop playing games with them.

Answer 2

I haven't read all of your question, I get bored with long ones. But, I would say that he is into you in a big way and you have burst his bubble and he's probably gutted.

Answer 3

Saying "Lets be friends" will crush anyone. sorry but you've ruined anything that could have been.

Answer 4

His feelings are hurt.  Any guy knows the old "just friends" routine means no chance at romance.  Could be he really cared for you.

Answer 5

Sounds like he is hurt. So instead of saying something he might regret or completely ignore you, he chooses to use emoticons to get the message across that he really isn't ready to have a conversation with you.

Maybe it is time you had a FACE TO FACE conversation with him and told him how you really feel. I know IM'ing has become pretty popular, but sometimes good old fashion f2f conversations are the best for certain subjects!

Answer 6

I think you probably hurt him when you said you just wanted to be friends with him. He seemed like he really liked you before, now his feelings are really hurt.