I have a stepdaughter--her dad and I have been married since she was 10, and together since she was 7--she's now turning 21. I was involved in her upbringing/raising--PTO, girl scouts, conferences, school fundraisers, field trip chaparone etc. Her mother is still in the picture and we have a decent relationship (decent enough that we can have dinner together and call each other Jo and Jen as opposed to Joanne and Jennifer). So why is it that when folks (strangers in line, co-workers, etc) ask about my children and their ages--and I respond--3 children, 20, 7, and 3, that people get all offensive because she's 'not really' my child and 'technically' I have two and a stepchild. They realize immediately that I'm not her birth mother because we're only 11 years apart in age. I'm not going to not metion her as she IS one of the kids. Are they too dumb to realize this is actually hurtful? Not all stepkids/stepparents have bad relationships!
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