What is up with the women bashing other women in here??

Question

I haven't been here long, but I've noticed a few in particular that have absolutely nothing nice to say about women, and supposedly they claim to be women. If you don't agree with feminism, why can't you just leave it at that and not talk down on others who do agree with it?

Give real answers too, please. Bashing people won't be tolerated. Just saying.

Answer 1

Ive noticed that too, and its mostly anti-feminist women bashing feminists,some of them seem to think feminists look down on traditional women, but we don't care how other women live their lives, and they shouldn't care how other women live their lives either.

I think its childish to "bash" others, just because they have different views and live their lives differently.

I think those women could be men pretending to be women, but i could be wrong!

Answer 2

Most of these people (Sally Bowles, April the Great, and that guy with the long black hair who always has to mention Orwellian equality) have NO understanding of what feminism actually IS, and what it is NOT. Their ignorant comments are based on assumptions and extrapolations of the actions of a few radical feminist groups, not by the majority of the feminist movement.

Answer 3

I think that the one or two you're thinking of aren't really women.

Just a hunch.

Answer 4

Just as in Real Life, women who do it are Insecure and have Crab in Barrel Syndrome.  Take them at face value and move on Without them. Some of them Are Men, who have Problems with Strong and Secure Women...you know who they are Because they frequently refer to real biological women as men.  Those have issues that cannot be crrected in this forum.  They did not like their own mothers for sure.

Answer 5

I have noticed them too and i dont have a prob with them other than the fact they cant just have an opinion they make assumptions that if you are not living they way they live then you are unhappy and selfish,wtf i am a feminist but im plenty happy and im not selfish i just have different life choices,my best friend is a stay at home mom but i dont tell her shes unhappy and selfish that is her lifechoice and i completely respect that.

Answer 6

Why do atheists post in the Religion category or meat-eaters post on the Vegetarian and Vegans category? The more you hate/disagree with something the more you want to argue about it.

Not all women agree with feminism.....some women do not see equality as important and view feminists as men-hating women trying to take over the world.... stepping on men in the process.

Answer 7

Two words: Free Speech. Given the mounds of hate and misandrous sexism against men that feminism spews, to then whine that feminists get a bit of a consequence *back* is pure childish hypocrisy. Deal with it. Feminism IS sexism.

"Whats the difference between NOW and the KKK ? The KKK has a dress code."

Answer 8

amen! :]

Answer 9

This is a discussion group.  People are entitled to express their opinions, even if they don't happen to agree with feminist orthodoxy.  Wouldn't it be rather boring if everyone had the same opinion about everything?  why does the idea of argument make you so fearful?  Surely a lively exchange of opinions is something to be welcomed?

Answer 10

It goes both ways. I do not consider myself a feminist, I can see both sides because I was raised in a fair household yet my opinion means sh*t when a supposed feminist decides she only wants to see a situation one way and refuses to consider the other.

Answer 11

lol...ignore them.

One is a unhappy L*****n trapped in a marriage she cant leave. (I wish I was making that up...)

the other isnt a real women..."clearing throat"..

Most of the real women get along pretty well, we dont always agree...but ya know thats life.

Answer 12

I not a woman but at least I'm not rude.   I don't agree with any of it or anything else, I just like to answer and ask questions. But if you want to get nasty with me, it's OK.

Answer 13

Amen sister! Some people just have nothing to say that is positive but feel entitled to look down on others under the sham moral superiority.

Answer 14

The people you describe are generally so insecure about their own opinions that they feel a need to demonize those of everyone else.

Answer 15

Why take this forum so seriously in the first place?? I will always give my opinion whether Fems like it or not, I don't hate women I hate stupid people. Take from that what you will....

Answer 16

It's a sad fact that sometimes women may never be able to get along.

I'm a woman myself, and even when it comes to feminism, you will still see cat fights, competition and lack of empathy towards what other women are going through.

I say just stick with those who you get along with and like to talk to.  Just ignore the women bashers, or say something smart back for entertainment. ;)

Answer 17

i make jokes ..i tease..but i dont think i really bash...do i?

if i have..i am sorry..it was never intentional..i just like joking around...

Answer 18

Let's say for instance I say that women do not need feminism in order to stand up and be heard; that is not bashing that is fact.  When I say that feminism is only a word that can do no more that what those involved allow it to do; that again is fact. When I say that women do not need feminism in order to be strong that is fact.  When I say I am a woman that, too, is fact.  When I say the fires in this forum often get hotter than those in h**l and damnation that is also fact.  Around here the motto is you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen. When I say all of what I just said I'm not bashing any one; I'm stating facts.

Answer 19

There shouldn't be any feminists. Right now everyone is considered equal so just shut up and stop complaining about how women are so poorly treated and just realize that life is a *****!

Answer 20

Everyone is entitled to express their opinion about feminism and feminists, no? This is the internet, not India where a man can be jailed for insulting his wife, sister, or other female relative.

Answer 21

i don't know but it's getting really old, as are april not so great, regina and a few others. lately the attacks on women whose choice it is to have a family and a career seem to be increasing.

Answer 22

Im soooooooo sick 2 death of feminists degrading womens natural roles as wifes and mothers Its sooooo sickening

Answer 23

Don't worry yourself about these people. They are a facade - as I am sure most of their views are as well. It's called being a bully, so don't give into their petty c**p.

Answer 24

I've noticed the same thing.  Everyone is entitled to an opinion but there is never a reason to be rude and degrading.  It's crazy.

Answer 25

I think most of these people don't have the guts to say things like this in real life, so they save it for here.