What is with guys? Guys AND girls please answer!!?

Question

I'm 14 years old and a freshman in high school. I've had a few random guys whistle at me, hit on me, flirt, whatever. Only guys I don't know. No one at school or in my grade has ever told me they 'like' me, asked me out or to homecoming, etc. My mom says it is because I intimidate guys but I'm not that sure.

I've got dark blonde hair that's shoulder length and sort of wavy. I usually straighten it in the mornings before school. I have hazel-green eyes and the only makeup I wear is eye liner. I'm 5'3 or 5'4 and I'm not fat or skinny. I guess I look good in swim suits (yeah, I've got b***s) and I think my thighs look fat. But doesn't everyone? I'm also weirdly skinny because I can see my ribcage without sucking in my stomach or anything; I look like an anorexic girl from the shoulders to the hips! Anyway, I look pretty normal. I wear cool clothes; I don't dress like a nun or a stripper but I look good. My style is sort of boho, flowy, patterned, earthy-s**y... I'm really friendly and I think my biggest asset is my sense of humor. I'm a dark, cynical type of person with a dry wit and a helluva lot of sacasm.

Why have no guys shown any interest in me yet? I don't have low-self-confidance or a self-esteem problem but having no action from the guys makes me feel a little like a loser. About 45-50% of my friends have gone on dates, etc. Why I am not being liked by any guys?

Oh, and I'm sorry if I sound really shallow in this question. I'm not usually like this.

Answer 1

your JUST like me. even down to the way we look (except i have almost no b***s). weird. but im a junior. it will be different, just take your time. During sophomore year it sort of changed, and i realized i like being single and just being a flirt. Since guys started showing an interest in me, I became the girl nobody could have. sorry if that sounds a little concieted, but im not like that :P

Answer 2

well to me you sound very normal and nice and it seems like ur an interesting, likeable girl so maybe the right guy hasnt found you yet, as lame as that sounds sometimes its true. i mean, okay..im 15 (sophmore in highscool) and ive never even had a gf, been on a date, or even kissed a girl before so sometimes it happens and ive learned that its actually for the best. because think about it, all it means is that what youre missing is the BAD guys that you dont really want to date. and that when that first date/kiss finally does come your way its going to something special rather than just kissing a guy you dont like or going to the movies with somebody you probably wont go out with again or something like that. so dont lose hope, i know its frustratng but just hang on a little longer, youre starting highschool now so youre gonna meet SOO many guys you didnt know before and chances are (i found this out when i became a freshman) guys are going to be looking at girls for relationships more than they ever have because it starts getting into our heads about the time we are freshman. so sweetie dont worry im sure you'll find a great guy and a meaningful relationship.

good luck, hope everything works out for the best ;) !!!

Answer 3

your mom is probably right.  

Answer 4

It sounds like nothing is wrong with you, you are just normal, but don't be to worried about guys! The right one will come one of these days so just relax and be freinds with everybody!