What is wrong with me? ..Please, help me..?

Question

I don't know what's going on with me. The feeling I have is very hard to explain, almost like confused/frustrated/depressed. Nothing really makes sense to me anymore, and its s******g with my relationship. Because even though everything is fine, the smallest thing will trigger some insecurity for unknown reason, and it wasn't even intended the way I took it. It's always been this way, but few and far between and not to this magnitude where it won't go away.. Could it be stress? I don't know how i'm going to pay for my freshman/upcoming year of college, and I started working 8 hour days four days a week right out of high school. Nothing can ever just seem to go right. I used to look on everything so positively, but i don't know, now I don't. What is wrong with me?

Answer 1

It is stress, absolutely. Financial worries causes the greatest stress to most people, that is why a lot of marriages fail, becaue of money issues. Can you apply for a loan for school? Even if you aren't religious, try praying for help on what is the best thing to do. Keep your head up! And don't fall victim to taking pills like Prozac, you can endure this without medication. Just relax and come up with a plan for what you are going to do. Everything will work out how it's supposed to.  

Answer 2

ok so your in a relationship tell your partner how you feel then when you act weird she'll understand. Think back to when you started feeling this and find out what triggered it.

Answer 3

It's that part of life when you are forced to make changes. Accept the calling. It's either you grow or you shrink back on it. You're not ill, you're just just a caterpillar turning into a butterfly. You fear of losing things, people, future. God puts in darkness into life so we may seek out the light. Then you will find something even worth more than all that you feared of losing.

-How can you fight the waves when you shudder at the gust of wind?

When man fears a rat, his eyes see a lion. Insecurity is fear. A little of that can magnify a problem 5 folds. So, work out your faith. Fear and courage is a decision. Be ready for the worst...but keep working out for the best. And last thing... (this works, believe me) Do things as if your holding on tight to God's clothing (in your mind), like a child. It got me through. Hope you will too.

Answer 4

stress, definitly. welcome to the real world. have a number, take a seat. we'll be right with u. :))   oh, smile. ur tackling a lot of things at one time. maybe u should prioritize a little to take some weight off ur shoulders. it's not what u like to do, i'm sure. but a person needs a little time to get used to things that are new to them. so give urself that time. practice  life. get better at it than set another goal. may sound simple, but as i have already said, practice.

hope this helped               smile everyday. think a silly thought and smile darn it :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))...

Answer 5

STRESS!

The longer you go on stressing your body, the more depressed you will become. Then you'll be confused because you're depressed, and you can't target what's wrong.

Insecurity is targeted because the smallest thing that is out of your control will upset you, because you're plan is all lined out in front of you.

But you need a break. If you keep going on like this, you'll surely fall into a deeper depression. Take a break and relax. Seek help. I'm not saying to take prescription drugs or anything like that, unless necessary, but don't worry. This is common in people who overexert their bodies.

Please seek help where you can find it, and talk to someone about it. Someone you can trust.