What is wrong with me?!?

Question

Okay, well I have a worrying problem & it's finally getting to the point where I can't stand it anymore. I worry over the stupidest stuff that I have NO control over. I worry if someone doesn't call me back (mostly this person that I like), doesn't message me back, if someone doesn't talk to me in awhile I think their mad at me, dying (not so much now, but last summer that was all i could think of), and the person I like is at the beach right now & I keep thinking that he's going to find another girlfriend there or he'll just suddenly stop talking to me & after we get off the phone with each other I analyze EVERY thing we talk about. I try not to think too much about it, but I can't help it. :( This worrying problem is so bad that I can't sleep anymore & my stomach hurts all the time. I'm going to the doctor for it on Tuesday, but I just wanted to know your opinions as well. I'm sorry if I didn't make the much sense. It's 5 in the morning, so yeah. =]] & if some of y'all are wondering I'm almost 17.

Answer 1

Sounds alot like how I was at your age. I suffered from anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, and depression...nice, huh? We got these chemicals in our brains, that if imbalanced will cause us to have anxiety and worry like this. Really  when its bad enough, you CAn Not control it on your own. Good news is, that medicine can straighten you out and let you live normally. If your doc wans to put you on a med, let him/her. You may be tired in the beginning or have some other side effects, but give it time to work!

Answer 2

It's just teenage love, dear. You'll grow out of it.

Answer 3

Sounds like anxiety and you may have low self esteem. The doctor may help you with the anxiety-he could recommend you to a therapist-but try to find things to help elevate your self esteem-so that you can gain some confidence. This can chase this person away-try to relax-he wouldn't be with you if he didn't like you.

Answer 4

Oh uh.. I was like that at your age.. and until now that I am amrried and had kids... I also went to a doctor he give me pills to counter act the acid of my stomach. At the first complain he told me If I am leaving  stressfully, like..always in a hurry... I said YES, and aside form that I was like.. like what you feel.. worried of everything. Just like the way you said... Guess what? that was only a year ago that I was having a medication.. but not for depression.. The doctor told me to relax... and rest my mind... its hard at first. very hard...as a mother and a housekeeper and a business woman, but i'm happy because my family helps me during my time of recovery. its like 2 months. Guess again? I  made a better friend of myself. Being kind to myself by NOT WORRYING to everything. It builds my confidence and faith in God. It also made me a stronger person.. to watch out my thoughts.. I talk to myslf everytime I began to worry. I think of positive things than worry.