What is wrong with my best friend?

Question

Okay so I have started noticing that my best friend hates any guy that takes interest in me. For example, the other day we both met this guy and agreed he was gorgeous. Then he started asking me out and my friend started saying he was ugly and she didn't think I should hang out with him. Im not sure it's jealousy. She's had a boyfriend for a year now. Its getting bad. She scares off every guy that I like by telling them things I was too pretty for them, Im not very faithful. and that their not my type. It's almost as if she doesn't want me to be happy. Anyone have any thoughts on on friendship? I love her except for this tad problem....

Answer 1

hey no friend should ever say that you are unfaithful. unless you really are. thats backstabbing. the reason why she is doing this...

1. shes become a L*****n and loves you.

2. shes jealous

3. she wants you to stay single so she can feel better about herself having something that you dont have.

ultimately id say....sit her down and ask her face to face. give her an ultimatum.

ANSWER ME OR DIE !!!!!

Answer 2

Ok, maybe you should experiment a bit more with this before actually talking to her.  Like ask one of your guy friends to 'take an interest in you'while in front of her, then walk away and tell that guy to profess how much he likes you to your bff.  If you don't want to do that, I suggest just talking to her.  Maybe she doesn't want you to have a boyfriend, because she feels it is something that will always keep her over you.  Some people like to be slightly better than their best friend.  has she been doing this to anyone else??  Has she been spreading rumours about you behind your back not just to boys?  Take that into account

Answer 3

why not you ask her directly in her face? clarify things and avoids all those misunderstanding...do not guess and jump into conclusion.

Answer 4

Yes, its no good trying to guess the answers to problems like this. Wait until the moment is right and just ask her what the heck is up and why she is behaving like this. Explain the distress it’s causing you. If she doesn’t give you a satisfactory reason or is unsympathetic then she isn’t a real friend period.

Answer 5

Okay first, your friend is REALLY messed up!! I would be so mad at her for doing that! You need to talk to her about that.. confront her!! If things don't change I think you should slowly break away from her and find a new friend because obviously she's jealous of you and that's not a healthy friendship.  

Answer 6

I would ask her why she is saying these things. Let her know you are feeling uncomfortable with it and give her a chance to explain. It is obvious she is feeling competitive. If you want to save you friendship you will have to be tactful in the way that you approach her  so that she does not get defensive and angry but you will have to discuss it also or it will come between you. Try not to put her on the defense by telling her what she's doing wrong but instead let her know how you are feeling when she says things without insulting WHAT she is doing. Maybe ask her if she could stop saying those kind of things because it makes you fell uncomfortable.