What is wrong with my ex boyfriend?

Question

My ex boyfriend from eight years ago still hangs out with my family and im ok with that. Last week he called my aunt and told her that i dont speak to him when we see each other. she said that me and him need to try to get along, and become friends. so I called him and said I was sorry if i didnt speak it wasnt personal, and I went on to tell him that i would like us to try and be friends or friendly since we see each other often. his responce was he didnt wanna talk about that, and that we could talk about that later..I concluded that he dont wanna try and be friends, so why does it bother him that I dont say hi so much that he had to call and tell my aunt? is he nuts?

Answer 1

hun, guys and so confusing

Answer 2

Wow, what IS his deal? Perhaps he is still not over you.  I honestly don't see why he still hangs out with your family.  If you guys broke up 8 years ago, I think this is a little odd.  Unless both of your families are really close? Are you really sure you're ok with him hanging out with your family still?  I personally would not be ok with my ex-boyfriend keeping contact with MY family. But that's just me. Do you keep in contact with his family?  

Answer 3

he is trying to earn enough browny points to worm his way back  

Answer 4

The guy has no closure on your affair. Best stay away and let him sort it out himself. Tell your relatives that you're are not comfortable with this situation and not to encourage him to visit. You did not mention if you have a new boy friend. Seeing you with another man would prove to him that you have moved on.