What is wrong with myself?

Question

I'm a 17 year old boy and when i went to the mall yesterday i saw one asian girl who drove me nuts, i really liked to look at her when she walks because she was wearing high heels and her hips was swinging. Is this something like a fetish or what is it? i don't know why i love looking at girls who are in high heels.

Answer 1

I don't know of any guys (all ages) who don't like the way a woman's hips move differently when she wears heels.  Totally normal.

Answer 2

Women wear heels to look s**y and it works better for some than others. When it works well most all men look and fall instantly in love,or should I say in lust.. I think you are perfectly normal. At least at this point we know you are turned on by women and that itself is a good thing. Keep looking and enjoy the eye candy.

Answer 3

Its because your testosterone is raging!  You're perfectly normal.

Answer 4

High heels look good on women, that's why they wear them, but I hear that they're very uncomfortable.

It's not a fetish, unless you really have a thing about them and want a woman to wear them to bed, or caress the shoes in a sexual manner.

(yes, those are fetishes).

But simply admiring a woman wearing high heels is precisely why they wear them.   You mentioned her hips, so obviously you weren't just fixating on the high heels.

I think that you're normal.    Both men and women admire the look of women's legs when they're wearing high heels, that's why they make them.

Enjoy yourself; there's nothing wrong!

Answer 5

Hunter,

It's not a fetish and there's nothing wrong with you.  If anything, you're maturing a little, and instead of being totally focused on your p***s, you're beginning to appreciate the beauty of women.  You're fine, no worries.

Answer 6

No that's not a fetish..i've actually heard that alot of guys like it when women wear heels better because of the hip movement. So there's nothing wrong with you..[:

Answer 7

its just natural, males are attracted to women in many ways

so this is normal

try get a look beyond the legs and heels,women body has so many beautiful things  

Answer 8

Normal dude, dont worry it is good

Answer 9

u like the ladies

Answer 10

i think its just a stage. there is nothing wrong with you. other guys like girls with perfect teeth e.c.t. Im pretty sure you will get over it.

Your a 17 year old guy. its pretty typical of guys your age to look at girls.

so don't worry.

if your that scared then talk to your friends.

good luck :)  

Answer 11

its normal, atleadt u know u not g*y lol

Answer 12

That's normal for a teenage boy.

Answer 13

Well, grammatically speaking the use of "myself" in your sentence is incorrect...

Answer 14

High heels give a better shape to a girls' legs - that's why girls wear them and boys like the result.

Since you have commented mainly on the way the girl looked I don't think this is a fetish.