Would you ever dream of telling your child that they did not have to do what their teacher or principal told them to do? I have a student that is constantly talking in class. As such, he misses directions, explanations, instruction, and generally has no idea what is going on in class. Neither do the kids who sit near him. As a consequence, he had to write "The Talking Lesson" which basically outlines why talking causes problems for everyone, when it is ok to talk and when he is not allowed to talk. It has worked really well as a deterrent for most of the kids I have taught in the last 12 years. His mother, decided it was not fair and told him not to do it. She didn't contact me, didn't show up for our conference...she just told him not to do it. Then she doesn't understand why the kid routinely refuses to do things that all the adults in the school instruct him to do, including classwork. How can she not realize the precedent that she is setting with this kid?
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