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my husband of 5 yrs is being such an *** yes we are in a tight spot lately with money and i give him suggestions on what we can do and then he goes and spends like its nothing nothing big but stuff adds up and im trying to keep to a tight budget yes i stay at home and he works so i understand its not the same he hardly ever works his full schedule out of ten days he averages eight sometimes seven and thats what makes our budget tight i dont know what to do im sick of arguing when i try to talk he walks away or just ignores me until i give up waiting for him to respond when he comes home he goes straight to sleep (he works graveyard) and he wakes up 2 or 3 hours before he has to leave. he doesnt spend any time with our daughter on his days off he sleeps or goes hangs out with his brother or if the brother is busy he sleeps when we are awake and gets up when we are ready to go to bed which isnt until 12 or so midnight im frusturated im worried. please dont even bother answering if you're going to say leave him i believe in our marriage and we a child so no. but other than that please any suggestions . btw ive tried the just let it roll off the back thing but how do you ignore a bad attitude for more than a day straight? talking hahaha yeah even if its a simple question like do you have any plans today i get a testy why a dirty look and then hear mumbling as he walks away ignoring him doesnt work cos it doesnt bother him i think he prefers it ive tried the whole mrs.cleaver routine but to no avail cant even ask him how was work cos he'll just get mad and say same old **** as always hes mad if my daughter and i are up when he gets home im at a loss he refuses to watch our kid if i get a job to help out i had a little under the table job a few years back and i would have to take her with me (i was lucky) even on his days off he wouldnt but he sure didnt mind the extra money im just tired of walking on eggshells when hes home i dont know....
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