I realize this may cause some controversy- but I feel that I need to ask this question. I always thought that a mother is one that raised you, fed you, taught you, loved you? Am I wrong here? Not to negate the importance of the birth mother in adoption. She is unselfish, and I am very thankful that my birth mom loved me, and the birth moms of my 2 adopted children loved them enough to chose life, when they knew that they could raise us. Even the birth mom of our son, said "you will always be his mother". Please don't take this as criticism of people who don't think adoptive parents are real moms and dads, it just concerns me because it sometimes makes us out to be 2nd rate, and not the real thing.
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