What is your opinion of this couple?

Question

They have been happily married 16 yrs with no kids.

He is 42 and she is 38.

They haven't made love since late february but are still very affectionate with lots of hugs,kisses and cuddling.

They get along great and rarely fight.

They are both very strongly against infidelity so neither 1 of them are cheating and neither of them ever would.

They are still very much in love.

They have talked many times about why they havent done anything but still nothing has happened.

They are very devoted to each other and their marriage.

What advice would you give them to get back on track with their s*x life.

Answer 1

They should take a vacation.  People always do it on vacation.

Answer 2

Just do it.

Answer 3

If they are happy then they will have s*x again shen they are ready.  But they could try setting a more romantic mood, using the bedroom ony for sleeping and other bedroom activities, no tv or anything like that, with candles and other things.

Answer 4

Stop trying to turn each other into a sibling. Go down on each other...She's reaching her sexual peak and will get frustrated...its a matter of time...he's whacking off and not interested in physical relationship with her...Take Care

Answer 5

Have s*x... But if they are HAPPY than wtf are you asking for?

Answer 6

well I'd say to just go have s*x. It sounds like one of them might have a physical problem if they're not having s*x for months. If not, I'd say just go do it.

Answer 7

You guys sound like you are in a little bit of a lull... don't fret - the fact that you are still talking & very devoted to one another is a great thing! Congrats!

Think about watching some p**n (the kind you agree about beforehand) together.  Have her dress up in something hot & remind her over & over again that she is extremely s**y.  If that does not work, try mutually taking care of yourselves in front of one another.  

Also think about changing your diet, more fruit/veggies - less junk food.. That also helps!

Good Luck!

Answer 8

I would set aside time and make it happen.  The more you do it and both are satisfied to the fullest the more you are going to want it.  

Answer 9

None.

They're the ones who are missing out. If they have a desire to get laid I'm sure they'll institute some type of communication or signal to one another to let their desires be known.

I wouldn't offer any advice unless yours is solicited. And if it is you should be able to provide some hints I would think.

Answer 10

You two need to get out of the house and go on vacation to a romantic place such as the Virgin Islands, Hawaii or the Leeward Islands.

Answer 11

I hate to go all Nike on you, but my advice would be, "Just do it."

Seriously.  Get up off the couch, go to the bedroom, lie down in bed, start touching, go in for some oral, and then let nature take its course.

Answer 12

Get after it dude and dudette.

Answer 13

Grab your Husband and jump on his you know what!!  You have to initiate it!!

Answer 14

I know right, sometimes it's just hard to have the 'get-up-and-go' to have s*x, in particular after being together and comfortable with each other for so long.

So just plan it out. Have a nice dinner and then a hot bath with candles and scented bubble bath, and give each other a good wash ;).

Then run along to bed and take it slow, do some of your old favs.

Answer 15

Some people can have s*x and yet no peace but they have it.So what is your problem?

Answer 16

I don't think anything.

Generally people that have been married that long and have no children are self-centered and think too much of themselves.

You asked.

Answer 17

well if they are so loving and so understanding but dont have s*x...and both know it and dont do nothing about it seems neither cares about s*x with the other why bother and mess up a good thing..you said they talked many times about why they havent done anything what was the answers they said. after 16 years together i bet they have just burned out on the same ole same ole s*x and each is scard to say what they want to do now..so i say they really aint talked and opened up or they are just both sexually dead. just needs some honest talking and some new things to spice it [e-mail]

Answer 18

Sounds to me like they are already happy. So what exactly needs to be fixed? s*x isn't eveything. It's good but not everything. I'm pretty sure my parents haven't had s*x for years (medical reason) and they are just as close to each other as they were before.