What is your opinion on people that have s*x before marriage?

Question

What is your opinion on people that have s*x before marriage?

Answer 1

its their decision, they just need to be ready to accept the consequences that may come with s*x. i am waiting for the right one still. i have nothing against anyone that has s*x before marriage.

Answer 2

i think its perfectly fine, just, you need to wait until you are emotionally ready for it. many people have s*x at too young an age and get an idea of s*x that isnt as appealing or enjoyable because its possible for them to get caught. this is what i hear from many adults at least. im only 14 and i want to wait until im AT LEAST 18 just because im scared of it at the moment, dont ask me why, i just am. but it IS a personal choice but those people who are having s*x before marriage needs birth control and condoms at their disposal at all times for safety measures.

Answer 3

I think its smart to do it before marriage. You want to be compatible with the person, and although s*x isnt the most important thing in a marriage, it can cause a LOT of issues. I know someone who waited and now he gets no s*x cuz she doesnt like it. What kind of life is that??

Answer 4

Nobody should buy a car without a test drive.

Answer 5

To each their own. I don't see pre-marital s*x as wrong or sinful and find it sad people condemn those who do. If you're sleeping with anything that moves then there's a problem but otherwise, what you do behind closed doors is your business.

Answer 6

im waiting =]

Answer 7

I don't think it's wrong to have s*x with someone that you have a serious, long term relationship with but I don't think it's a good idea to sleep around a lot.  

I can't imagine marrying someone without knowing anything about s*x but I wouldn't want a guy who's been with every girl in the county and I don't imagine a guy would want me if he knew I'd been with dozens and dozens of guys.  

Answer 8

after 23 years together with my partner without marriage, that would have been a long wait, not everyone believes in the same things and they should not be made to feel they are any better or worse than anyone else because of their choices.

Answer 9

i believe that its their choice to make, just as it is someones choice to wait.

s*x is something that should be shared with someone you are completely in love with. sometimes you meet that person when marriage just is not an option

for example. my first love, i began dating him and 6 months later decided to take the next step. we were togetther for nearly 3 years. and although we are no longer togetther, i do not for one instance regret the decision i made. it was right for me [although i respect it may not be right for others] && he and i will always share a special bond because of it

Answer 10

I think s*x is an amazing experience to share with a person, and I always wanted to wait until I'd met the right person. In my case, I met him when I was 16, but we waited for a few years until we were completely comfortable with each other before we actually had s*x. I don't regret my decision at all, I know we're good together and I trust him completely. But if I hadn't met him, who knows how old I would be until I met someone I could trust with something this important.

That said, I also can't really judge people who want to wait until marriage, as long as it's what they *actually* want to do because they want to be in a committed relationship first. I hate it when people say that s*x before marriage is a sin, and aren't open to any other possibilities, period. They need to grow up a little, s*x is a normal part of any loving relationship, married or not.