What is your personal rule with regards to communications? ?

Question

What is your rule regarding someone who moans and plays the TA game "isn't it awful?" and then tries to get you to accept that you 'are in there somewhere' because your facial expressions show pain and you aren't always able to get out of it with a loving boundary.

Answer 1

huh?

Answer 2

My personal rules re communications :

*  I communicate only with people who I respect and who respect me in turn.

*  I am extremely careful not to hurt the feelings of others, and equally careful in not allowing others to hurt my feelings.

*  I insist on offering and receiving only sensible stuff.

Answer 3

I remain stoic and turn it back on them. Head games can be very entertaining.  

Answer 4

TA=think about it game?

I hate that game.

Answer 5

What's the TA game? Nooo idea what you're talking about, sorry. Add some details.