What is your reaction to this kind of dating?

Question

how many of you have experienced this at least once in your life:

being with someone you beleive he doesnt cheat on you...but he dates you only once or max twice a week(beginning of relationship)...and thats NOT weekend time....not much call or text message....

what was your feeling? how did you come over that? any good result outta that?

I chose marriage category cause i believe people here are more matured and experienced than single dating category

Answer 1

Are you having s*x with him on those times you do see him?

If so, it seems he is getting what he wants.

The question is, are you willing to be in a relationship that is based solely on meeting his sexual needs?

Answer 2

I'd say he's playing the field and isn't dating just you.  The guy I recently started seeing wants to see me every single day and we've only technically been together for a week.  If a guy really wants to be with you, he finds the time.

Answer 3

Maybe he/she doesn't want you to feel they are smothering you. You should call them and ask how they view your relationship, just to be sure they feel the same as you do.

Good Luck

Answer 4

He is not intrested in a long term relationship.  

Linda

Answer 5

Has he had a real relationship before?

My husband was like that when we first start dating, but he caught on pretty quick that it wasn't acceptable.  But he'd never had a real relationship before so he didn't know how he was supposed to act.

I put up with it for a few weeks, and then had to talk to him about it.  When he heard how I felt, he put in the effort to change.

Sometimes boys are just clueless.  But talk to him and see.  No point wasting your time if he's going to be like that forever.

Answer 6

He`s out partying with his buddies , or is having fun with other girls. It`s one or both of these.

Answer 7

hi tina!

i don't think much of the BF here if he only sees u weekdays and no weekends, no calls no texts sounds like he has the perfect girl if u know what i mean tina?

girlfriend for the weekdays and free for the weekends to do what he pleases and i do hope u are wearing protection when u see him and no I'm sorry i don't believe he is being faith full love.

not this one!

cc

Answer 8

Well belive it or not, women can and do the same thing. If he has little contact over the phone or texts you very little and only sees you during the week, He's married! Plain and simple.

I had a similar situation with a woman I had met online and we seemed to really hit it off and she brought up being exclusive which I was ok with but, we never went to her house because she had nosey roommates. She also said that we couldn't see each other on weekends because she worked for her fathers business. As it turned out I ran into her and her husband and three children at a local eatery and although I didn't confront her ( I now wish I did  but just couldn't because of her kids ) but we neve spoke again.

My advice, move on, find someone who is available for you emotionally and physically. Always beware of people who carry secrets.  

Answer 9

I was with a guy for 10 months and it was like that. But he was a partier and a stoner and had a million friends. He was 21. Never had a girlfriend before. I was recently seperated with 1 child. I was 26. I don't know why I stuck it out for as long as I did, I guess I was in love with him and he made me happy at the time. In the end, it came down to us wanting different things.

My husband wanted every day in with me in the beginning. He had his priorities straight and still does.

I wouldn't date this guy. You will never come 1st. There is always something more important going on. Believe me, its so not worth it.

Answer 10

Sorry dear, this one sounds like he is married! Unless you have proof that he works weekends, then he is probably committed elsewhere on weekends and you need to find out where and with whom.