Whats the thing that drives you to be? I mean, what does your life call you to do... what is it you where meant to accomplish? And try not to say God, thats a generic answer - the same with kids. If your reason for being is god or children - then you have no drive to live if either of them's taken away.
So what are some good, reasons to live - your drive, day to day.
Random threads of cursing because of comments are welcome too if you must. But I've known too many mothers in my life who stay with a husband just for the kids then when the kids get around 16-18 they go and tell the eldest daughter that they would have killed themselves long ago had it not been for them kids.
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