What it means when you dream of getting married?

Question

And just some details to help you guys - the wedding was "disaster", no one was dressed like for a wedding, there were no flowers noting. The bride (my girlfriend) she didn't like here dress at all, cuz it was her aunt's old dress. If there wasn't that similarity with wedding ceremony a would say that was just a normal party but no ...

Answer 1

wedding dreams are always nightmares.  2 weeks before my wedding i had a dream that i went out and got a huge tattoo on my back...a purple box across my whole back.  why?

Answer 2

Are you already engaged or thinking about it?

It sounds to me like a dream like that would indicate that you are just not ready to get married, just like in the dream when nothing was ready.  No flowers, no decoration, no preparations; like you were rushing into the marriage without having made any plans yet.

Maybe it means you both have more planning to do and getting your lives in order before you should talk about marriage.

Does that make any sense to you?  I'm just interpreting your dream in my own way, I am in no way a professional, lol.

You could get a dreambook, even!

Answer 3

Well, dreams can be nothing, or they can reflect on aspects of your life that need attention, that can't or don't get addressed in conscious state.

Weddings generally symbolize new beginnings or transitions in your life. Quite often they will be negative dreams and highlight some fear or anxiety you need to confront. So look at those details that may reflect back on anxieties or fears in your waking life. Weddings can also address issues about commitment or independence. And since you're in a relationship at the moment, look at the negative details of the wedding and how that reflects on your relationship.

Just brainstorming here, but reading your post, I'm wondering if since in the wedding nothing was 'wedding like' maybe there is some issue about commitment in the relationship? Or honesty in the relationship. Being true to yourself and to your partner. Or aunt's old dress maybe something to do with pressure from family or friends or making decisions based on pressure from others. Only you can know how that ties into your life /lives and relationship. Good luck!

If you are going to be getting married (in real life) then it's pretty normal to dream about upcoming weddings.

Answer 4

I am getting married soon and I am having dreams that everything is going to be wrong! Are you getting married?

Answer 5

dreams.....thats all they are.  Your creative side of the brain finally free from 10+ hours of suppression now allowed to run free.  If you dream of killing people in your dreams you aren't a killer.  If you have s*x dreams you aren't abnormal.  Ride the wave and have fun with dreams, they are a pseudo reality rarely appreciated.

Answer 6

maybe ur future wedding will be like that. i wouldn't believe a dream though.

Answer 7

You're desperately and hopelessly waiting... With ya there girlie! LOL :)