What its like to come to malaysia?

Question

it slowly sinks in. what? reality! that i'm still a stranger to this land. and there's no one that i'm mutually close to within a 1000 miles.

all the fantacy and excitement is fading away. i'm getting pulled into the social matrix of this place. i dont smile,talk or even look at people i dont know. i used to like talk to at least 3 random ppl per day. but did i make any friends from that? not really. so i dont talk/smile look at strangers anymore. why should i? did anyone ever talk, smile, look at me without another agenda. when i was in the airport a grl spoke to me, but that was coz she wanted 50c to talk to her bf. besides that the only other ppl that spoke to me were ppl who wanted to sell stuff.

i'm not saying i havent made any friends. i've made a few friends. most of them are from my country, the rest are from other countries. so whats with the locals? why arent they friendly? why?

so why am i telling this to everyone? so they can feed on my insecurities? i dont know and i dont care. and i know they dont give a rats *** either. i'm telling this just so maybe they would understand what it feels like to be in my place, to leave your home, your family and friends, and everything that means alot to you, to go to a new country, with hopes and dreams. and soon there is no hope..

Answer 1

the sandy beaches

Answer 2

i guess you're still young, so, my piece of advice:

it's not too late, don't waste your precious life in that "friendly", "nice" and "hospitable" country... go somewhere else, enjoy life to the fullest. sate your passion in life. you deserve a better place and not to die loser in that boring place.

i empathize with you.

Answer 3

I think you're worrying too much about other people! Just relax and enjoy your self!! I've been to Malaysia and the people were very friendly...I'll definitely be going back....But sometimes when we feel down or unhappy, people around us feel that we are unapproachable... Look for something that really interests you there and pursue it- that way you will meet people that have similar interests!

Answer 4

ok thanks for that  

Answer 5

eh? what bah u talking about this?

Answer 6

culture shock also happen to me when i was in US..........LOL

Answer 7

i guest u are the same person from sri langka and post this type of questions 3 times, what i knew is most of malaysian people is very friendly..i don't know why if they act differently with you..maybe better you make your self  more relax

Answer 8

I don't know what to say bro, but I'm very friendly with everyone. Maybe they are very busy.  

Answer 9

We are friendly! In every country have beautiful, ugly, friendly and unfriendly people everywhere.