What kind of a boyfriend is he ? and why does he prefer his guys frnds over his gf ?

Question

well he's been seeing this girl (not me) for about a year now. Before that he met me in which he showed a lot of interest by obsessing and continuously asking me out. While i rejected him or so he was seeing this other girl. Although he is with her, he talks to me alot and acts as if he's my boyfriend for about 6 months until i asked him what i am to him and he replied by saying just friends, after that he didn't stop flirting with me until i actually hurt his feelings :/

There's something really weird about his relationship with his gf which kind of creeps me out. When they take pics, there's no sign of intimacy or anything, she looks more pretty distant and just smiling all the time. He for another part is always with his guy friends while he's with her. Even when they have dinner or anything he sits with his best friend and not with his gf. He used to get pretty nervous whenever she called him or she was in school somehow waiting for him while i was there, thinking he'd loose his chance of getting with me. She met his dad and his relationship with her is pretty serious (that's what i think), but why does he spend most of his time with his guy friends and there's no intimacy btw them and she's just so ok about it ?

I'm asking because i kind of have feelings for him. Not a stalker, id like to know incase he breaks up with her.

Answer 1

Not all guys are mature about a relationship with the opposite s*x.  They feel uncomfortable and being around guy friends helps relax his nerves probably.  So this might not be the guy to desire a hook up in the future.  You will be spending too much time reading between the lines instead of him telling you how he really feels about you.  There are plenty of guys to ooh and aww about besides this one.  

Answer 2

He's the type that wants a girl that is cool with satisfying his needs and playing her role and not nagging him all the time. Sounds like y'all had something going on but you pushed him away which is why he would never fully committ to you. If she is cool with him and his homeys thats a plus. There will be a time when she will wants his full attention but they will probably compromise about it and things will work out. Sounds like you may have missed your boat. If you really want to be with him cut out the "kinda sorta jazz", its annoying, immature and guys don't like it. I may sound blunt but I speak the truth. If you wanna get him back, take him back.

Answer 3

Well my question is why would you want someone who seems to be mistreating his girl and who flirts so much with you that you couldnt even define your relationship with him. Honestly he doesn't seem very nice...but obviously you must really like him to allow him to make passes at you while knowing he already has a girl. I know you eventually made him stop and stuff buts its like..if you see his relationship is odd and he seems not to care about her and he seems to be waiting for you...call him on it. Ask him about it. Ask him who does he want to be with and since he seems like you want to be with him, if he picks you...you have to tell him to stop leading her on before you guys can develop a relationship together. And find out why was he even with her when they seem so distant from ech other. Maybe if you ask questions about his relationship with her you will see what kind of person he really is and maybe you might not like him anymore

Answer 4

      No offense or anything but if he treats her that way, and then he breaks up with her for you, Imagine what he would do to you.

You may think he likes me and he would never do that to me...think again.

Trust me I've lived it. If he acts that way around her, then hes going to do the exact same thing if you go out with him.

He is sooo not worth it.

Trust me.

Hope I helped

-Kairi