What kind of changes you made after you get married, how hard it was to change?

Question

What kind of changes you made after you get married, how hard it was to change?

Answer 1

well first and foremost you have to start always to think of the other person and not just yourself.  Also you have to be more patient and less selfish/

Answer 2

Reaching home on time...............   very hard

Answer 3

early sleeping

spending less time outside home.

have a tag along with me most of the time where ever i go, lol,me wife. have to do please my mom & wife

Quite  easy coz u have to make it easy or life becomes quite diff.

Answer 4

I married young, both my husband and I married right out of our parents homes without having lived out on our own. We had several siblings each, so it was easy to adjust to marriage, since we'd never had our own car, room, bathroom, etc. We were used to sharing, adjusting, etc.

Many people now live a decade on their own before marriage, and are "set in their ways", then feel a spouse cramps their style.

We never had to deal with that, I think it made things easier.

Answer 5

It's taking me *alot* of time trying to adjust and settle to a whole new way of life. Even though I am happy and thankful to Allah that I'm married to the man I love, I sometimes miss certain aspects of my old life. Everything seems so new and sometimes that can be scary....and what makes it even more difficult is that I'm the type of person who doesn't like change.

But I am praying to Allah to make it easy for me...to help me adjust and in all these changes, to keep me guided on the Straight Path always InshaAllah. That is one of my biggest fears...that in all these changing circumstances I might fall behind in Salah or something...but *InshaAllah* as long as Allah guides me that wont ever happen.

Wishing you all the best sister.

Salam ♥

Answer 6

I have a friend who got married to an Iranian, Sunni, religious Muslim who came from Iran a while ago. She is a divorcee. Her ex husband divorced her quite soon after marriage. Anyway, so this friend married about a year ago, and she didn't used to wear hijab and used to work. But her husband wanted her to hijab (he didn't force her or anything) so she's started wearing hijab. She's very happy with the marriage. The main changes were that she stopped working as she's pregnant, and is more religious, and attends to the housework more (she didn't at her ex husband's house, who was a horrible man)