What make a man difficult or happines?

Question

What make a man difficult or happines?

Answer 1

When there are so much restraints in his life, that prevents him to be true to oneself on pursuing what his heart really wants. To fill the joy he truly longs for.

When his dark views in life persist through his mind and heart.

Avoiding of letting go of unpleasant things he always use to dwell in his own mind. Resulting in too much inhibition or procrastination of the better things coming.

When also a man has an unforgivable heart that leads him to hatred and inability to see or welcome some real good things that could knock into the door of his  treasured life.

Answer 2

What is a difficult man?  Is it happines or HAPPINESS? or what you want is::: A MAN DIFFICULT FOR HAPPINESS???

((Please make it very very clear to get a clear answer***))

aNYWAY, wILL hELP yOUUUUU.

A FUSSY & DOWN TYPE MAN.  A MAN IN THE WELL THAT CAN ONLY ACCEPT HIS SMALL WORLD.  When the world is too big, he gets his problems, all kinds.

Answer 3

My dear "Jaja"...

Well... when one is content deep inside he's "automatically" -HAPPY- !!! And when he shares this happiness with "other's" as Anjana has put it, the happiness will "double" !!! To be satisfied with what one has is the ultimate of happiness & can NOT be "bought" with any $$$$ !!!

What's "difficult" is... when one constantly desires "more goods", in essence : when one is materialisticly inclined, which ends up in -misery-, because one is NEVER happy with what he has "at present"...which in return ...makes his life...miserable !!!

Wish you all the contentment you can achieve & all the best for the future! Greetings from Germany... Annette***

Answer 4

Negative thinking of our mindsets make us more difficult while positive thinking mindsets make us easier to be happy.

Answer 5

Its how you look at life...Is the glass half empty or full...is an obstacle a road block or a challenge...i think once you let something affect your mindset so that it is not constructive it becomes more difficult

Answer 6

Men are not difficult. Some are just harder to please Pleasing  a man will of course lead to happiness. Just like a happy wife makes for a better life.

Answer 7

A dark mind makes life difficult.

A bright well rounded mind brings happiness. To get the kind of light that brings a well rounded happiness, one has to put time aside to become familiar with the light within yourself. More info is on my bio.

Light brings light, and dark brings mistakes and difficulties.

Answer 8

It is all based on how he views himself. If he believes he is successful or doing the things he needs to do to provide for his family or himself then he will be happy. If not he will be difficult. So it is based on his personal view that is created by societies norms.

Answer 9

If you are happy, you would be soft and if you are not happy then you would be hard and being in difficulty you cannot be a happy man!

So, be cool and plan wisely to come out of difficulties and gain the strength and confidence to face and to overcome all the troubles to win the situation and to succeed for the ultimate happiness!

Be sure and mindful that the HAPPINESS IS THE ONLY THING THAT CAN MULTIPLY BY DIVIDING IT, SO SHARE YOUR HAPPINESS WITH ALL WHOM YOU LOVE AND LIVE WITH TO CONTINUE TO ENJOY MORE OF IT!

Answer 10

"Desire is the root cause of all evil"

-Gautam Buddha

Its not possible eliminate desires. But should control them. Your desires should not control you. Desire to excel and succeed is ok. But when you start comparing yourzelf with others, the whole problem begins. For eg- My friend has got this Mercedes, and I am driving a cheap car. That sort of desire, you understand? That makes you unhappy. Negative thinking and procrastination also bring depression. Be an optimist, and do not think negative.

Answer 11

My grandfather once said, "It's my God-given American right to like or not like somebody!"

Answer 12

Everyone is cool. I know oredi what kind of lifestyle u all have...so nice....

As for my life, I know....believe or not it's truth Singapore Indians love to make my life difficult and no happiness at all. hahha...Racism created by singapore government dogs.

Answer 13

Overcoming difficulties successfully makes a man stronger, and puts him in a better position to share his happiness with others.  People have a tendency to respect, and emulate, survivors.

Answer 14

I was struck,a nd so o strike.  i now have more enemies than friends, and  my enemies are  very valuable to me. One of these days they will be fat enough to eat.

Answer 15

I think the human ability to be adaptable works against people sometimes. Suppose somebody gets a dream job or meets an ideal mate. After, a period of time, even that turn of luck will become familiar. Then, it is almost inevitable that it is taken for granted. The same thing happens on a larger scale when their is a new invention. Everyone is thrilled to have DVDS or the Internet for awhile, but in time there is less enthusiasm, and people start to complain about late fees at the DVD store or adds on the Internet.

Answer 16

When a person does his work(any type)  without any troubles he will be happy himself other wise he feel it difficult.

Thats all I can say.

Answer 17

Fear of self - the grating of internal confusions and splits  which make them unable to love themselves unconditionally.

Answer 18

he should be considerate to the needs of others . kindness breads kindness . thanks . take care

Answer 19

If he were to use a form of hypnosis to  understand what other creatures are like he would be more happy as he would have all he needs.

Answer 20

Change your mind set and change the way you feel! It is always a choice!  How you respond to things affects your moods!  So to look for the positive no matter how small and focus on this will turn the negative energy closer to positive energy!  The more you do this the easier it will get, and then you will find yourself automatically looking and focusing on the positive no matter how small!!  Cheers !!!

Answer 21

man is victim of his own making ,anything is possible but we ourselves create the reasons why we cannot

Answer 22

It's all up in his mind and his outlook of life. And the other determining factors such as upbringing, a past, society, community.

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Answer 23

Positive statements help you define who you are.... Remember that it is you who chooses how reality looks like....Positive thinking make you  enjoy the present moment and make the most out of it

Answer 24

"Man, Master of His Destiny," O. M. Aivanhov,

"The Path of the Higher Self," Mark Prophet, and

"The Great Divorce," C. S. Lewis, offer evidence that as a man thinks in his love, so is he.

Answer 25

If he makes the most of time, he is happy, otherwise it makes him difficult or unhappy.

Answer 26

Difficult - hunger , Happy - a full belly .

Answer 27

People are perceived as being difficult when they are arrogant, pig-headed, selfish, inflexible and lack consideration for others.

Not sure what you mean by asking - difficult or happiness? If you aren't seen as a difficult person it doesn't automatically follow on that you will be happy. The two are not really related in the way you have coupled them together.

People with a lot of negativity and a chip on their shoulder are never happy. People who are resentful of others success and wallow in self pity.

Each individual needs to take personal responsibility, not blame others. So called problems can be seen as challenges and opportunity's to learn more about your strengths and resilience.

Answer 28

his own beliefs and mindsets

it is always determined by the induvidual tho it may seem obvious to another person to decide happy from unhappy

it is always up to the induvidual

Answer 29

The way he is brought up   and how he has been raised  as a child.......... also could be in the genes .........     cheers to you...

Answer 30

Negative Thinking and weak strong will power makes a man difficult & satisfaction & achieve goal makes happiness.

Answer 31

Happiness makes a man complacent whereas the difficulties and struggles in life make a man worthy of living. Life is not a bed of roses and it is only after walking though the nails and thorns that one learns how to live and enjoy life with gratitude for the small mercies. Happiness can only be 'earned' by undergoing suffering and struggles.