I rave recently reconnected with an old friend (actually an old childhood friend/old flame) with whom I lost contact 18 years ago. We have both been divorced, and both are stil quite fond of one another. But because of all that he has been through w his former wife, he has become extremely private. I am the polar opposite! How can I be a good friend to him, be there for him and earn his trust? Sometimes he shares his heart with me. Other times, he guardes his private matters very closely. I want to understand what makes the private person so guarded. Is it a fear of something? I know my friend wants me in his life as a friend, and I don't want to intrude farther than he wants me. I don't want to let him down in any way, as he is truly a very old friend and dear person to me.
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