What makes s*x so much better after marriage.?

Question

I'm waiting for marriage to do ANY sexual activity, but I'm curious how it makes it so much better.

I'm a christian, and a virgin.

Answer 1

It doesn't necessarily make it better

Love makes it better, actually...not the rite of marriage

Answer 2

It makes it worse. You don't know what you're doing and your partner has nothing compare to.

So you both experience bad s*x and think that it's good. Enjoy.

Answer 3

Theoretically speaking: the idea that you're the only person they're doing it with.

In practical terms: knowing that you won't be tortured for it.

Answer 4

Sexual activity is better after marriage because it is within the guidelines of God’s laws. When you have to wait for something it has value and the same with sexual activity.

You can have more assurance that your partner will not cheat because they waited for you.

Summertime: If you think it is Prevish(Sic) to remain a virgin and the thought of that makes you sick and a person remaining a virgin makes you think they are a predator, you my friend have a very sick mind. Seek help

Answer 5

Hello,

I am married and don't ever buy that argument that once you are married everything including your s*x life is the best.

Unfortunately the thrill of s*x is much better when it comes to you as a forbidden fruit or you end up in the sack with some wild sort of person who initially hates you etc. Life is full of temptations. When single and looking you seem to have a big L burned on your forehead saying, loser yet when you are engaged or married other ladies seem to hit on you in droves. Anyway, don't take my word for it; ask some of the Bible characters like King David, Jezebel's husband etc.

Cheers,

Michael Kelly

Cheers

Answer 6

you make me sick creep and I pray the woman you marry find out your prevish ways like what your posting here makes me think your a predator

Answer 7

Waiting until marriage isn't going to make s*x any better or worse.  Having no former partners as a basis for comparison, you simply won't know if the s*x is bad.

Is ignorance bliss?  That's for you to decide.

Answer 8

s*x is better with someone you care for and respect.

But, a marriage license or ceremony doesn't magically make s*x better.

And, I'd much rather know before I married that I was sexually compatible with my partner.  The idea of marrying a virgin is exhausting. I want a partner, not a pupil.

Answer 9

For starters it wouldnt be just s*x anymore

Answer 10

I've been married for 7 years in December. I got married when I was 20. My husband is the only man I've ever been with and I wouldn't have it any other way. I don't have s*x with my husband and think about other men and I don't have any other sexual experiences to compare him to. If s*x would be better with someone else I don't need to know. They say ignorance is bliss, and I’m truly in heaven. I love my husband very much and when we are intimate it is the best thing because it’s more than just physical. That is the way God intended it to be. Assuming that whoever you marry you will love as well, you will have nothing to worry about.  When you’re praying to God for your spouse you can ask God to give you someone you’re sexually compatible with. God will honor your decision to put him first and give you the desires of your heart.

Answer 11

That's great that you're waiting for marriage. It's so special that you give that one gift to your bride!   It's the one thing that you have between you and your spouse that you never shared with anyone else.  You don't have the guilt and baggage that comes with having many sexual partners.  (Not to mention the fact that you don't have to worry about std's!)  It's blessed and sanctified by God.  My husband was very honored that he was my first and only one.  It's exciting to share something so special only with your true love.  God bless.

Answer 12

security, commitment

Answer 13

your wife is always waiting at home making your dinner when you've finished and come home

<joke - ok>

Answer 14

It's always fun, but it's better with someone you love. If you happen to love the person you're with, and not married, go for it.

But s*x after marriage is so good because you never get it, and when you do it's like, the first time in five months sometimes.  

Answer 15

s*x is always fun, but its more fun and more worth it if its with someone you care about.

Answer 16

Really good s*x has nothing to do with marriage. Marriage is just a piece of paper legitimizing sexual intercourse (among other things, of course).  It all has to do with intense, passionate LOVE between two HUMAN beings. This feeling will take you to stratospheric orgasmic heights. It's better than "heaven" on Earth, because the theist's heaven ain't real.

Edit - Since nothing anyone says here will change your mind, why did you ask the question? Being a virgin is not a badge of honor - you can be accused of being a closet serial masturbator and a p**n addict because you're going against your NATURAL urges. But hey, it's your empty life, not ours.

Answer 17

s*x is always better when it's love, not "just s*x"...  a committed relationship is a real help to that, but marriage, to many, is no longer that.

being choosy is good, but don't get needless hangups in the process...

Answer 18

You actually think there's s*x after marriage?

Marriage is where s*x goes to die.

Good luck figuring that out for yourself.

Peace.

Answer 19

It's rarity?

Answer 20

It doesn't. I'm not married (yet) and I'm having the best s*x ever.  

Answer 21

There are two aspects of it you listen to the word of God you have preserved yourselves you didn't defy the marriage beds you kept it sacred you will not be sinning that is what makes it better fulfilling your role spiritually speaking.

Answer 22

+ Deus caritas est +

I am a christian, a catholic actually, and a virgin too, and I am proud to be. Sorry that I employed a phrase of a particular social group without permission but I just had to!

Now, for catholics we have s*x after marriage as s*x in contemporary terms often only means the entertainment. The entertainment, to catholics, is only a byproduct of vow of conjugal chastity.

When you marry somebody, you are still chaste even you have s*x with your spouse because in the Sacrament of Matrimony, you have made the vow of "Conjugal Chastity" i.e. not committing adultery.

It is fantastic for catholics, we do not ever get to pay for rubber gloves, as we are not allowed to use them, anyway! I personally do not believe in contraception, which is a favourite subject of this society when it comes to "s*x after marriage" business. Nevertheless that is besides the point.

Returning back to my first paragraph, s*x and its joy is only a byproduct of conjugal chastity. What the society calls free s*x before marriage whereever and whenever one wishes is actually from what I see, not a s*x but a sin. Ooh... so judgemental!

Condemning oneself with such beautiful gift given by God... Sad I find it but it seems they find it enjoyable. So be it. Living in a free society, I tolerate such injustice.

Answer 23

It can be better or it can be worse.  The thing that marriage affects is your relationship, or more appropriately, you and your partner affect your relationship through marriage.  s*x can either reflect the state of your relationship or can be used to help the relationship along.

s*x is just s*x and marriage in and of itself does not effect it.  

Answer 24

When you wait until marriage to have s*x, God will give His blessing to you, and you will be able to fully enjoy it because you know you are doing it as you are meant to. If you had s*x before marriage it would not be as enjoyable because deep down you would know you are doing something wrong.

Answer 25

You obey God's instructions. It is great you do that.

Answer 26

As countless studies have determined, married s*x is better because it is MUCH more intimate and meaningful. (Yes, there are plenty of miserable exceptions -- but the statistics are hard to argue against. Unmarried s*x is lacking in dimensions -- and in many cases doesn't go very far past the mere physical. The best married s*x has a WHOLE lot more going on.)

You can understand more about it by reading on the subject -- or you can wait to find out for yourself someday.

As one author described it: "The problem with s*x outside of marriage is that it just isn't very s**y."  He's right.  If you give yourself the opportunity, you will someday know how true that is.

Answer 27

Because it is sanctified and a joyful way to celebrate your love.

God bless you for making that wonderful decision!

D1

Answer 28

Marriage, in and of itself, does not make s*x better.  Being intimate with a partner where love is mutual and trust is fully there makes initmacy better.

Some people wait for marriage and then do not have a positive experience because they are sexually mismatched.

I believe if you are planning on getting married, you should explore sexuality just like you would look at shared values, goals, and likes/dislikes.