What makes you a closed person? and can you change it?

Question

A person with a moon in scorpio is more likely to be closed?

cancer sun?

please tell me why and ways i can open up to people so i dont become a hermit!

do you have hermit ways? lol

any information would be appreciated :)

Answer 1

open up more about yourself to others so they will understand you better or get to know you better.  talk and be more outgoing

Answer 2

when i first meet people, i'm very closed . . . i think its because, i don't know what to expect from that person, and don't know what they can do, without knowing so much about me, i always have the saying " they are going to judge me" in my head- again its trust . . .once i know what they are like, and how they think, i start to open up . . . but obviously i'm not going to know everyones moves, because some are secretive like me . . .

i used to always keep myslef to myslef, because i thought, its my business, no1 elses . . .

a way you could open up is don't be afraid of expressing yourself any way you can, like for example, you might keep yourself to yourself, but when you meet people, be very open, yea big step for scorpio moon, was for me, but trust me, this is the way i did it, inside me i was thinking agghhh! but then i thought this is the only way people will try to understand me abit at least . . . once i was open with the, they were the same, it was really hard and uncomfortable to me, but thats how it worked, i have some very good friends that actually understand me, just by being open and expressing myself the best way i could have, even though i didn't want to, it made a difference to my life, and to who my real friends were, because then i knew who would have my trust and . . . but i try not to give out way too much information, just enough to keep people guessing . . . i know a girl who told another girl, her whole life story like what dodgy things her bf did, and what blood type she is lol naah but she was just being too open about every little detail, the best way is to just express key points about you, at least that way people get an idea of what they like, and then they can judge you, if they like you . . .

try it!

Answer 3

Cancerians are very sensitive and usually introverted people.

Personally i think their sensitive and insecure natures stop them from being social because they feel they may not be appreciated or that they may be ridiculed.

also I have observed that Cancerians tend to overreact to situations. like if u tell any other sign "u r looking fat" they will frown for a moment and forget about it the next day. but a cancerian will feel very hurt and will keep thinking about that comment for weeks. so the rest of the people cannot understand a cancerian.

my suggestion would be to try to lighten up if indeed this is the same problem that u face. cancerians should not feel unloved/unappreciated but instead recognise their talents and strengths and feel good about themselves. they should also realise that NO ONE is perfect or universally loved.people may say nasty things to you, you shouldnt let it affect u!!

try to have mixed sets of friends who u can meet up with and discuss different subjects with. u can try to join music/dance/other hobby classes where u can make new freinds besides learning something new. also. a talent like that will make u popular!

i know it's tough being a cancerian, so best of luck!!

remember - u r as good, if not better, than anyone else!

Answer 4

An insecure and shy person can be a closed person.

Smile and eye contact are important.

Best of luck!

Answer 5

In the big picture, I believe it is fear that makes a person closed... but the term "closed" is a little harsh.

The signs you indicated are water signs, and they are emotional. And emotional signs will tend to try and protect themselves. That's natural. No one wants to be hurt. But you have to realize, you will be hurt occasionally... that's life. It would help if you could develop two things: 1) an acceptance that sometimes you will get hurt and it is not the end of the world even if it feels like it and 2) a way to protect yourself so you feel a little more comfortable going out into the world and getting a little more involved.

Not everyone is a social butterfly, or wants to run around all the time going from here to there... but a life lived behind closed doors is not a good idea all the time. You start to stagnate and grow "old" too quickly. We all need constant refreshing. Some prefer it more often then others, but we all need it.

Answer 6

I dont know anything about Horoscopes but its possible to change your personality if you really wanted too(it will be hard to)

Aint nothin wrong with being a hermit, if thats what makes you happy.

I do have hermit ways, I like alone time because people in general tend to annoy me especially unruly children.

That doesnt mean Im alone all the time, I love good people in small doses ;)

Answer 7

Your door makes you a closed person.Of course you can keep it wide open.