What makes you a good mom?

Question

I know I've asked this question before, as others have too, but it's good to sit back and congratulate ourselves on a job well done once in awhile.

I also thought it would be a pleasant question amidst all the debate over parenting methods...

So, what makes you a good mom? We are all good moms.

Answer 1

Putting your childs needs FIRST, and doing everything possible to stay together. A mother doesn't leave her child behind

Answer 2

I make sure that my daughter is happy and healthy, and I make sure she is protected at all times of the day. I always make sure that whenever she needs to go to the doctor or whenever she is sick, that she gets the help she needs, and I never put anyone before her.

Answer 3

My little girl is only 2 months old, so I dont have much experience...what I have been told I am a good mom because of the love and compassion for my baby girl. The willingness to do anything in this world to get her what she NEEDS! I am willing to put myself second, and her first. I am very patience towards her. In the future I will do anything to make her happy, but I will also be strict. I want her to know the lines, to respect others as well as herself. I am trying hard to change my insecurity, so that she wont have them, I dont want her disliking who she is, like I did, I want her to look in the mirror and be happy and proud. I will teach her to independent, and I will not be upset at mistakes she makes, instead I will show her how to learn from them And no matter what she does, or what she looks like I will always be there to support her and cheer her on.

Answer 4

trusting your maternal instincts and not worrying about everyone else's opinions; and showing your child that his/her parents love each other. "There is not a greater gift you can give a child than showing him that his parents love each other" (Kathryn Sansone, mother of 10)

Answer 5

That thing inside me that I can't even explain.  It makes me tear up when I think about it.  It's that knowledge that this little guy, this perfect angel, is counting on me, ME, to take care of his every need.  What an incredible honor it is to be my son's mommy!

Answer 6

When I feel less than confident about being a mom, my own mom reminds me that I'm the one who works and provides for me and my daughter, all on my own.  I think about it and realize that I always have a steady job, benefits, steady housing, a decent car, and the food, clothes, and anything else we need.  That makes me proud, cuz not everyone has those things.  I'm a good mom cuz I love my daughter no matter what, and I never forget to tell her that.  I try teaching her to the best of my ability when she is learning new things or has questions, and it makes me feel good to be the one to explain things to her and help her learn about life and the world around us.  

You are right - I'm far from perfect, I know a lot of things I need to improve on as a mom.  But once in awhile, it's nice to reflect on all of the positive things!

Answer 7

I honestly believe that if you care for your children, and want the best for them, help them make their own decisions, and teach them from right to wrong, your a good mom. Treat them as if they were Your children. Not just kids. Look at how your parents treated you and take what you like and don't like into consideration.  

Answer 8

Hello B & B,

A good mother always puts her children first, no matter what. Once you have kids, from the moment they are born, a good mother tends to their every need. That carries on, and a good mother will nurture her children so they grow, not only physically but mentally and spiritually too. A good mother will teach her children morals and values, respect and most of all, love. A good mother will make sure that her child is educated. A good mother will teach her children how to give love and how to receive it. She will always be there for her children, no matter how old they are. She will always have open arms, hearing ears and a loving heart for her children. A good mother can judge her children and advise them when she thinks it's right to do so. Equally, a good mother can decide not to get involved and let them make their own mistakes. But, she will always be there to pick up the pieces.

A good mother will never stand in the way of her child's relationship with it's father.

I'm sure B & B you are the perfect Mom.   x

Answer 9

Basically providing for my child in every possible way I can. Making sure she has a full tummy, clean toochie, fun activities to play with, a nice warm bed to lay her head down at night to dream the sweet dreams. A loving home with 2 loving parents who will do anything for her. God gave my husband & myself this little blessing and we are going to make sure she is well taken care of. I go with what my gut tells me, and I know I am doing everything that is best for Sarah. I am not a perfect mom, but hopefully in Sarah's eyes, I am the best she can ever have.

♥

Answer 10

I sacrificed a lot during my pregnancies

I breastfed

I didn't let them skip crawling

I didn't get them the chicken pox vaccination

I give them "tough love"

I am not their best friend (until they're older)

I educate myself so I can educate them

Answer 11

Learning from my mistakes (and moving on)

Knowing when to ask for help

Loads of patience

The ability to REALLY listen even if they are only babbling

Remembering to take time out for myself (but not enough!)

Being consistent

Being firm

Making sure my children are well nourished

Not doing everything for my children so they become independent, well adjusted little people

Answer 12

i have the best mom...the reason i feel so is the LOVE and CARE she provides me in abundance. A smile that greets me everymorning, and a hug for every frown.  

Answer 13

i think what makes a mom a good mom is when she puts the needs of her children first. makes sure they are properly clothed and fed and healthy. makes sure they get a good education. if you have a well behaved good child usually it means because you have a good role model and great parents.  

Answer 14

Well I am a man, so I would be a good mom because I would have a genetic strength advantage over the other moms.

Answer 15

The reason am a good mom because the night the doctors told me my daughter wouldn't make it through the night. I stayed by her bead and sang hush little baby don't say a work all night cause the only time she would keep her stats up is when I sang to her.  That was the longest day of my life.  I'm a good mom because  I'm their through the hardest times in her life.

Answer 16

what makes me a good mom is I let my daughter (18 months) wrap our dog up in toilet paper and make a mess out of it.  All the while I laughed and giggled with her and took pictures....

See:  http://i364.photobucket.com/albums/oo90/...

Answer 17

my son!!  he taught me patience and how to giggle again!!  I also think the copious amounts of coffee I drink daily definately helps with my parenting!!  lol...  and makes me a lot less tired!

Answer 18

what makes me a good mom?

Deep question...I don't think there is anyone thing that makes me "good".  I think God knew exactly who my daughter needed for a mom and I was the right fit for her and so He blessed me and my husband with her.  I think that is what makes me a good mom.

Wow...two thumbs down for speaking from my heart some of you people are so nice?!!

Answer 19

I know when to step in and when to step back.  Which is actually a very fine line to dance, and never pleases everyone.  But, I'm helping a little girl grow into a strong, self-assured, capable, independent woman who knows that she is unconditionally loved by her parents.

Answer 20

I'm a good mom because I let my son eat oatmeal cookies.  I know that a lil' sugar/junk food every now and then isn't gonna kill him......... And when he sees me get that cookie out he starts laughing and speed crawling towards me... :)

Answer 21

I'm a good mom because I always listen to the advise of others and pay attention to the parenting choices of others, but in the end, I always go with my heart and with what I feel is right for my family.  

Among many other things, but just recently here are a few examples: For me that meant keeping my child in her crib until she was 3 years old.  It also means that I continue to let her have a pacifier even though she is 3 years old. (Snickering - We went to the dentist last week and he actually said "She's one of the few that actually benefits from pacifier use because of the way her arches don't line up.  Sucking on a pacifier may pull this arch out so that it will align with the other arch")