What makes you a responsible owner? Is it the following?

Question

Why is it when someone asks for your opinion on a cat/pet related matter and as part of the answer, you say it should be neutered, they mark you down because it's not what they want to hear and/or because they can't afford it?

Surely if you're going to get a pet, you think about the cost of vaccinations, insurance, neutering, etc before you adopt it? Doesn't anyone think of the impact a pet will have on their life or, more importantly, the impact they'll have on the animals life?

And therefore, doesn't that mean that to be a responsible owner you will vaccinate and neuter your pet (unless it's for breeding purposes)?

And also take it to the vets if it's ill?

Answer 1

I don't even know you, but I am one of your biggest fans!  Can we just respond to all the cat questions with your question please?  I get to p***d when these people ask the most awfully stupid questions, and then say they can't afford it right now.  Did they ever stop and think what the cat is feeling?  

I agree with you totally and bravo!  I've gotten to the point that I just paste in my answer anymore.  With so many kittens being born, I just respond to them by thanking them for adding to the number of cats that will be euthanized this week.

Thanks for your post.  I love the way you posted it so many will look just due to curiosity.  THANKS!

Answer 2

I totally agree with you.  Unfortunately there are many irresponsible pet owners out there.

Answer 3

Unfortunately pets are impulse items for a great number of people, and are just one more disposable possession to be discarded when it's no longer convenient, or they get tired of it.  All responsible pet owners get their animals spayed/neutered, and take them to the vet when needed.  

Most of the people who "can't afford" proper vet care and spay/neuter really choose to not pay for it - they've probably got satellite TV, certainly they have internet access, and they probably go out for lunch most days of the week.  It's all part of the disposable item mentality.  

I will tell you a true story - we had a lovely pair of Siamese cats surrendered to rescue a few years ago.  The reason?  The owner had redecorated, and these cats no longer fit in with her color scheme, so she had to get rid of them.  Sad reflection on many people's views on pet ownership.  

Answer 4

Whilst your comments are completely valid, what you are forgetting is that sometimes we get adopted by our pets and not the other way around.  Mind you, I am lucky (and so is my cat) that I can afford to take her to the vets.  Occasionally people have difficulties in their lives and lose jobs and can not afford what they once could.  I agree though, that if you are actively seeking a pet, you should think about the cost implications before you buy one.  I dislike the questions "where can I get a free kitten?" as it suggests that if they aren't willing to pay for a pet, they don't have the money for its upkeep.  

Answer 5

yes if your a responsible owner you do think about those things BEFORE you get a pet, and once you get a pet you make sure your responsible for it- it's health especially.