What makes you feel special(Men and woman)?

Question

What are some things your spouse can do to make you feel special?

Answer 1

As long as that cash keeps flowing, I feel special.

Answer 2

just out of the blue say or txt that i loves me works everytime  

Answer 3

Being able to sit at home, with nothing to do, and still be able to enjoy your company.

Buy me flowers for no reason.

Send me cute text messages.

Cook me dinner.

Answer 4

It is the little things that matter most.  Just making me feel like I am an important part of his life.  During the day just let me know that he is thinking about me. (send a text, a quick call, tell me about a song he heard that reminded him of me ect...)

Don't buy me flowers, pick me one from the yard.  Don't buy me a card, write me a note.  If I am having a bad day, be there for me. Tell me I am beautiful and that I still turn you on.  Most importantly show me that you love me.  It does not take money to make me feel special just letting me know that I am important and my feelings matter. It is the little things that matter.

Answer 5

the way he takes care of me when i get sick and he dont complain about having to do chores or cook also a i love you just out of the blue for know special reason the way he looks at me still after all the yrs we have been married and the way he respects my feelings he is a good man  

Answer 6

Treat her like a lady. Treat people with respect. Treat people like you would want to be treated.

Love thy neighbor as thy self.

If you do these things you will do good.

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Answer 7

Sign the divorce papers and give me the kid!

Answer 8

My husband still makes me feel like the most amazing woman on Earth after ten years of marriage. He still takes me out on "dates" and enjoys my company. He respects me and still shows me how in love with me he is by rubbing my back, sending me flowers, or thanking me for everything I do. A simple "thanks for being my wife" does wonders for me.

Answer 9

Being appreciated ,as well  of the things I do for him . As much as I love my husband , I believe communication is very important in a relationship . If you don't have it ,there is nothing that can make it good .

Have a good day.

Answer 10

He calls me beautiful instead of my name. When I have a bad day, he always does something special for me to make me smile. He holds me when I go to sleep because he knows I won't sleep well without it. The way he looks at me.  

Answer 11

There are 5 levels of specialness that a spouse could express:

1.  (low) They could give you the most popular thing, so that you can feel popular.  Like a football jersey from the local pro team, or a dozen roses.  This way there is low risk of embarassment about being different.  

2.  They could give you popular stuff but with a variation, ie. "crocs" ... in a wild new color.  Then you feel like they shopped around and made a decision.  They might also give you a Hallmark card... with a short note about their feelings toward you.

3.  (medium) They could give you something unusual, found at a flea market, or on a business trip when you weren't there.  It shows that you're on their mind, and they have a sense of your individuality.  They talk with you about what you like and don't like about it.  You can laugh together about how you each have some weird interests.

4.  They can make you something or have something custom ordered that reflects a unique interest of yours, an accomplishment, or some individual trait.  Such as a family crest, or some personalized notepaper with a character drawing of you and your dog.  Or, they give you a book about friendship and they write a long note inside the book cover.

5.  (high) They can almost read your mind, and together you enjoy exploring life and experimenting with all the choices that make up a day.  Together you feel colors to match your moods.  You enjoy gifting little things like a matchbook from a favorite old restaurant.  Your spouse calls you at times just to say hello.  Together you develop some odd characteristics; you both like diamond shapes, you both like green and blue, you both prefer sleazy diners over steak houses.  Occasionally your spouse gives you some gift that ties a thought back to an interest you had a long time ago, like new york city or guitars or incense burning or celtic massage techniques. Your spouse reflects your skills back to you; if you excel at a sport or a career or parenting or any hobby, your spouse will give you time and resources to pursue those things, and help you feel like your life is meaningful and different and that your personal effort had something to do with it.

Answer 12

Right this minute, for my wife to make feel special is for her to get me some Alpine Professional Car Audio loudspeakers 6 x 9.  This babies are sweet to my ears as I am very much addicted to tons of Rock Music in general.  I am a big time Music freak!  I listen to tons and tons of good fast beat music. From rock concerts, to dance clubs to house parties.

Not too sure what works for us men, but wives try getting your husband his ultimate favorite gadget.  Hope this helps!

Answer 13

I send her flowers at work. Sometimes I'll take off early and either clean the house or have dinner ready for her when she gets home.

She called me one day from my work parking lot and had a picnic lunch with her for us to share in a nearby park.

Answer 14

Always be there from them.  There is nothing better feeling then to have your spouse be close to her through thick and thin, and always be able to be counted on and be able to talk to you about anything.  Always care for them and show them they are everything you need in life.

Answer 15

I like when my guy will just give me a massage for no reason. Like last night we were laying in bed watching tv and he just took off my socks and started rubbing my feet until I fell asleep. That was special. ;]