What makes you get down in the dumps?

Question

And what's your biggest fear?

I think I fear disappointing someone who matters to me the most.

Every time I do, I tend to go into a little depression until I know everything's all right between me and them.

I always get sad when I stare at myself in the mirror. Don't really know why, but if I stare at myself for a long time in the mirror, I won't look into a mirror for the rest of the day.

And I always get sad when I have someone tell me they're sorry for something. They kinda make me feel guilty that they did something bad towards me.

Answer 1

That is so weird, because all of those things match me. I always fear about disappointing people who I care about the most, and when I feel like I've done something that I shouldn't I get all nervous and worried about it and I can't get over it. And I'm the same with the sorry thing.

But I learned that the truth is if you area always worrying about disappointing people you'll never be able to get anything done, or you might miss a great opportunity if you're so focused on pleasing someone. So lighten up a Little. Understand that half the things don't even matter. You just think they do. But I am the same way, my biggest fear is disappointing people. I always want to be approved of.

Answer 2

it makes me get down in the dumps is when i cant afford to pay for a meal and i have to go in the dump for food.

Answer 3

Making mistakes makes me feel down in the dumps. My biggest fear is going back to the homeless shelter because I didn't like it at all, no, not one bit.