What must the wife & kids do ?

Question

If a Muslim Husband can never succeed in wat ever he does & can't fullfill his duties towards his wife & kids. what must they do? (plz give sincere advice under the ruling of Quraan & sunnah)

Answer 1

The wife should try her best to solve the problems her husband has.

To stand with him and see whats really wrong to overcome the Obstacles.

Together they both should be 1 and solve all the problems that occur.

Edit : I dont think she should divorce just because he has a financial crises.

She should try giving him another chance.

In Islam , Talaq(Divorce) is the worst solution .

Answer 2

This is one of the problems with marrying someone you don't truly love.  A marriage is a partnership and should be treated as such.  When problems arise you work together to solve them.  I understand she may have lost some respect for him because he isn't supporting them, but is this because he can't or chooses not too.  You don't divorce over silly little things like this if you love the person, if you don't love them then by all means divorce and get out of a loveless marriage.

Answer 3

Islam allows you begging to rich Islamic guys. They will defenitly give  Zakath to you!2.5% is the ratio of Zakath. Means the rich guys of Islam can keep and spend their 100000 Indan rupee withuot having fear of entering Jahannam and the multitude poors should satisfy with 2500Irs zakath money . Don't ask any more. Because Allah made you poor as well as rich!Do you know this? THERE ARE 2 CRORE CHILDREN DYING WITH STARVATION ,EVERY YEAR.and most of them from Muslim comminity. Another fact! 30% OF THE TOTAL WEALTH IS BELONGED TO Muslims  and their population is around 20% of total world population. This is Islam the great religion from noble god!

Answer 4

Seems her love of money exceeds the love towards him. She should not be divorcing for these reasons. Marriage is not a business...may be the next husband also might fails to earn enough to the level of a wife satisfaction!!.  What I know is that divorce is the last option when all doors are closed..something which is made halal but hateful in the sight of Allah.

Thing is that if he is lazy and not striving enough, he must be advised of his duties as a husband. But if he is striving hard and fails in his efforts, a good wife will only support to the Divine decree and remain patient by hoping someday fortune will befall their life. Our beloved Prophet(pbuh) has advised us to look at those who are lesser in means in terms of Dunya. Then we will realize that we are much far blessed than those millions of poverty stricken hungry people around the world and become thankful to Allah than complaining about shortage of His blessings.

Answer 5

patience, and my advice is to trade/ work in commerce in goods the local market is in need of it, and inshAllah he will succeed.

".. while others travel in the land in search of Allah's bounty..." (73:20)

Muhammad (saw) joined his uncle on trade journeys at 12 (and said in at 9).

Answer 6

The wife should fulfill the duties.