What one thing do you need to change about yourself and the way you treat others?

Question

I need to be nicer and more respectful towards people.

Answer 1

I need to not trust people so easily

it hasn't bit me in the rear yet, but i'm sure karma will take it's toll sooner or later.

Answer 2

I need to remind myself over and over that other people don't matter. I know that sounds harsh, but hear me out. I've always been too concerned with making sure other people are comfortable or I don't hurt someone else's feelings or whether or they like me. As I've grown more and more comfortable with myself in the last few years, I've come to realize that I haven't been taking care of myself enough. If you truly have a good heart, then you will always be good to people. You can't care about other people until you really care about yourself. So, I have to come to slowly accept myself more and realize that other people's opinions and thoughts aren't the most important thing.

Answer 3

I need to not believe that everyone is out to make me feel bad about myself and stop treating people like they've already made me feel that way. Not everyone is like that.

Answer 4

I have a bad habit of being HONEST....and not honest in a good way (or so my husband says).  It's more of a BRUTAL HONESTY...and I have got to learn to control my tongue a bit in that area.

Answer 5

I need to become more confident, and by doing so I will not blow people off by not speaking to them and having an awkward moment.