My girlfriend has an abusive ex-boyfriend who she broke up with 3 years ago, yet he has continued to follow her, stalk her, and abuse her physically, verbally, and sexually. I recently discovered that he showed up uninvited at her house last night and hit her across the face and shoved her into a wall.
Naturally i am enraged and if she would tell me who he is and where he lives i feel i would have no problem in taking to his head with any heavy sharp object with the intention of killing this low-life scumbag.
All she has told me is that him and his uncle have both sexually and physically abused her.
I've told her i want her to go to the police, or tell someone about it or even get them sorted out by less legal means, but she insists that there is nothing we can do. she says that if he is put away, or even accused of doing this, then his uncle and father will come after her or her family.
from what i can think of, if the authorities are told we have no evidence of these events, and even if him and his uncle are locked away she is convinced that his family will come after her and her family.
if me and my friends confront him, same thing will happen.
short of murdering all three men, (which i feel capable of doing but know its not the solution) there seems to be no way of putting an end to this.
she also tells me 'it will be over soon, i can see it in his eyes when he looks at me that he is desperate and is losing interest'
the reason he has done these things to her is that he thinks by hitting her and scaring her he can make her want to be with him again-obviously the wrong way to go about it.
she thinks he will completely lose interest soon and leave her alone, but im not so convinced. i want to be sure he never walks the streets again, and spends the rest of his life in solitude and misery like he deserves.
i just don't know what i can do about it, and if anyone can be bothered to read this and offer some advice, i'd be very grateful
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