Sunday was awful, I really feel bad for my babies how we both behaved. I broke out his window, he pulled out a gun starting shooting, I ran my truck on the grass, the neighbors called the police and I went to jail. My kids saw it all. Now I'm down about my behavior infront of my babies, how I allowed my husband to push me that far...and upset that they saw him at his worst, shooting a gun. The kids are sooo shakin up and afraid of him, and extremely clingy to me. (recent update)...for 2 mos during the separation, I allowed him to basically have his cake and eat it to. Not seeing the kids view, (daddy in a few days and gone for a few)..I was being selfish and pacifying my own needs. Anyway, my emotions were too involved and I snapped. Monday I changed my ph number and opened a new email acct. Today...5 days later, he emails me and say "tell me when I can get my babies...I can pick them up when I finish playing basketball and bring them back Sunday". 3 thigs here, 1. I'm not mentally or emotionally ready to deal with him on ANY level...2 my kids are soo afraid of him b/c of what they saw and how we behaved. 3. when we were on "good" terms him stopping by, s******g me and leaving, he went almost 2 weeks without seeing them. But the moment I get pissed and pull back, "he want to see his kids" I have not responded b/c I know he will push a button or manipulate my emotions. It's a 8 yr pattern. I know right now I am extremely weak, and need to know is it fair for me to deal with him later on maybe in a few weeks, but 5 days after ALL OF THIS is just too much on me. My hands constantly shake, and head spin with so much running thru my body. I walk around with a Bible and read it all day to keep me from crying.
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