My husband's son is out of control, burning things, staged a break in and ransack of our house because he forgot his house key, lying, stealing, and overall selfish and disrespectful. I know this could've been prevented had my husband been consistent in discipline. Instead of trying to help solve his son's problems, he finally decided to send him to live with his older daughter who lives an hour away. There was no discussion with me on the subject and I didn't even know what was going on until my stepson came in to pack up his stuff. I understand my husband was trying to ease the tension between us and our sons by sending him away. But as a parent, I would be more inclined to solving the problem myself instead of giving up my child.
I'm struggling to understand this. I've tried talking to him about it but, like normal, he closes up on me. I was given up twice as a child and couldn't do that to mine. Why would a parent do this? What can I do now?
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