What qualities do Farang men look for in a woman? ?

Question

I'm curious why they like Thai women so much.

Answer 1

First of all I would disagree, with Shorty 87.

I must say I have always like petite girls my ex, was petite 5' 0'' but aside that if you get a nice Thai girl who is what you for your heart and not as a customer then you have won the heaven on earth.

And I am sure some may say that a poor girl from Thailand would like to get out out of the poor system but pride in Thailand is much more than that for a Thai.

A Thai would not put up with a bad Farang who is constantly is womanising, but when they find a good man they will cherish him with all their hearts.

And likewise a good Farang has seen what has went wrong with the world in general is the lack of love and affection with the world.

For Better for Worse rings true in Thailand, even if I was penniless I konw my partner would stick bye me, cos she did it already has.

So Shorty87 come over and open your heart to the differences in the Asian culture.

Answer 2

Hi Goong, the simple answer to your question is that Thai ladies still possess the qualities that Western ladies have lost in our greedy society. Sure, the Thai ladies want a better life for themselves and I do not blame them for that. It is the ability to enjoy the simple things in life that I cherish with my Thai girlfriend.

Answer 3

I definitely agreed with a lot of what nam erehwon said. I think for me, the Thai women are intelligent, polite, feminine and beautiful inside and out, if you found a woman like this in the US she would be one in a million. Coming from America, there is a stark contrast from the American women and the Thai women. I know my first time in Thailand, was an amazing experience for me, my views on women and what a real woman was changed forever.

Maybe it's not so much what the Thai women are, but what they aren't!

Thai women are s**y and beautiful, without being arrogant, conceited or dressing or acting like a w***e.

They are intelligent, without being close-minded or a complete know it all! Willing to see other peoples points of view and yes.... compromise!

I think it's so easy for the American women to spread their legs and find another man they don't have to stick it out and make it work. I know several guys married to foreign women not just Thai women and American women treat them with disgust and distain. I guess they cheated the system, marrying a foreigner! It's good to know there is a way out, without eating a bullet lol!

Answer 4

white men like thai women because thai women want them as they have more money and will get them out of there country.. therefore the men feel they are doing the women a "favour" and the women go to other countries and end up being housewives, or working in s*x industry. men prefer them to white women because white women want more, they want careers and there own identity. white men can also be older and less attractive and may not find a nice white women who would love them at their older age, but younger thai women will marry them, so a younger women will always appeal to them.

it is also because of the large s*x industry in thailand that caters to all kinds of strange fetishes men have, so they see these women as very sexual.  

Answer 5

I can't speak for anyone else but I think Thai women need us and we like to be needed.  Thai women are family oriented and understand commitment  where western women give up when the going gets a little tough.  Thai women don't expect flowers every day and are thankful when they get them.  A Thai women will do what she must to make the family work, they give a lot of themselves.

Thai men are very lucky and unlucky at the same time because there is an abundance of women in their country who have the same values fidelity, loyalty and commitment they forget what a gift they have.  And so they act like a boy opening presents on Christmas opening one and tossing it aside for another without developing a full enjoyment for the gift they have been given.  So it is with the Farang that go to the bars in Pattaya, Nana and the rest.  

But there are some western men with good hearts who can see the exceptional qualities that Thai women posses.  They are like the boy who gets the present he has always hoped for and develops a passion for the gift he has been given.

The thumbs down will be from jilted lovers who's hearts are no good.

Edit: Shorty 87 Do you know how spoiled you sound?  Why do you think you need to ruin the party for everyone? Have your career, find a young "white guy" if that's what you want.  I got mine and so far I'm pretty happy. Tiger Woods dad isn't a "White Guy" and Hope (a regular here) her boyfriend isn't old an ugly and anyway can't an old ugly white guy have some joy in his life?  I here similar complaints to yours from African American women who see "white women" taking all the eligible African American men.