What r the best ways to get over someone?

Question

How do u get over someone you weren't ready to let go? Or how did any of you get over "the one that got away?" Does anyone have some good methods or techniques, I could use a helping hand.

Answer 1

You keep yourself busy reading, getting online, start a new hobby, join a gym, join a support group, various things you can do or you start thinking about someone else.  The last one worked for me.

Answer 2

find everything in that person that made you made or angry, like all the negative things.

and try to find someone new, even though it might be hard, just keep going!

once you start to get over it you will NEVER look back.

believe me.

good luck!

Answer 3

think about all the NEGATIVE things about them

Answer 4

first off...sorry dude to know dat u have to get over someone...

as a guy, try beer and parties with frnds....baseball basketball games...short holiday with frnds...hit the clubs....get occupied with work or hobbies

to me, the most practical way is to find someone new...find a new target and get focused...

Answer 5

A new piece of trim always worked for me! I forgot about those old girlfriend DOLTS instantly.

Answer 6

Tara is absolutely right. The only real cure is time. To pass the time, chicks tend to eat a lot of chocolate, so you could try that. :)

Answer 7

Keep your self busy and away from anything that you remind you of them.

Answer 8

First, give yourself some time to be sad.

Then, make yourself accept it.  

Get rid of all mementos.

Do not let yourself dwell on it.

Set a specific date to not dwell on it any more.   When the thoughts of them  comes to your mind .. change your thoughts - like changing the channel.  Learn to control your thought process -- it is possible -- and you can control what you think about.

Develop a determination to move forward - and to put this behind you.

Find new interesting habits.

Be active.

Find new people, places, and things.

Give it TIME.   TIME - is the healer of most things.

Answer 9

who took the L out of Lover?

yes, it is over now.

some questions....how long were you together? do you mean over as in they died or over as in they broke it off?

I always reccommend journaling. You can write when your mad or sad. You can put pictures...poems....the lyrics to songs....write a letter to your "someone" even though they will never read it...it helps. write a letter to yourself...what you would say if this happened ot your friend.

hang in there.....

this will pass

Answer 10

find som1 else

Answer 11

By starting to date again.

Answer 12

It always helps to love yourself as much as you love the person that you are in love with.  Ask yourself, if this were someone I loved would I want them to be treated this way, how would I react if they were?  I know you love this woman, there is no doubt in my mind...however it doesn't seem right that this love that you have is not being reciprocated to me.  If I were in love with a man - and I am - I would and do everything I can to work things out.  He is a good man, and I would not do anything to bring a tear to his eye on purpose.  I would never stand by and watch him tormented and suffering, I would be there with him helping in any way that he needed me to.  This woman is not ready for the type of love that you offer.  She is looking inside only at herself, and now a baby that she probably doesn't know what to do with at this point.  Ask yourself, is what you are getting and how you are feeling what you would want for someone you love....answer honestly and you and only you know that answer.  I do know that there are two arms somewhere in this world meantt just for you, that will hold you tightly when you need them and they will always be there no matter what happens in your life.  You just have to decide that this is what you want.

Answer 13

Personally, just think it that it's really the reality of life that sometimes you really need to learn the art of letting go if you aren't meant to each other. what's the point of keeping the relationship if it isn't worth fighting for. Hence, the best way in dealing with it is accepting what's reality