What s*x has it harder in life?

Question

men or women and state your reasons.

I think it women, if they are housewife they are called lazy, if they are working mothers they are frowned on. if they have casual s*x they are whores while the man is a stud.everything women do society doesn't like it. dont think women will ever win

Answer 1

Men because my wife says alot of things that are wrong but she demands that they be right. Men have to worry about his women and watch her back.  We have lots of pressure on us.  And if we don't work we are degraded and looked down on.  Men if not top notch have a hard time picking up a date.  Now a women honestly doesn't have to look like a model and just about every man out there wants her.

Answer 2

Women- No matter if they work just as hard as the man, they're the ones still expected to clean the house, take care of the kids most of the time, cook dinner, do laundry, run errands, etc. All the man is supposed to do is provide and protect his family.  

Answer 3

If you already stated your case then why did you ask the question.  Are you looking to be swayed?  I believe in today's society nobody really has it that hard anymore.  Actually if anyone is the underdog it's probably the Caucasian male because all the labor laws give minorities and females the upper hand where in most cases they can't hang...

so there you go!  

Answer 4

Women..

not because i am one but i truly do think it, it sounds daft but men dont have to worry about thier appearance as much, they jump in the shower and off they go but women have to shower, shave, make-up, hair ect..

also, women have to give birth.. obv :) wont go into that!

and i think its stupid how men boast about being a stud and getting all these girls but if a girl does it, shes a slag.

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Answer 5

Women.

We also have to work, have children and raise the family, often with little input from husbands. (Yes there are plenty of men who take an active part in bringing up children, but still not enough).

Women face sexism and suffer lower pay rates. In a number of countries the issues of women are not treated as equal to those of men. Many women around the world suffer repression. IE prohibited from gaining an education, leaving home unescorted.

I'm female, live in England and have it easy. Even so, my partner is a workaholic who puts his job first and many of the choices we have made have needed to take consideration of this.  

Answer 6

This is a no brainer. Look at history. WHO got the vote before women? See the Fifteenth Amendment. Who is still paid less than men? Who has to be able to take care of the house and kids as well as hold down a full-time job?

On top of all this the medical community has not yet determined the health effects on women for major medications and treatments. The medical information is based on what is known about how men react.

We still have a long way to go.

Answer 7

FEMALE

we have have kids come out of places it hurts.

have to bleed out of places when younger..

if we have kids and men leaves us, we have responsiility of themm

males work, to make our needs....

but to let themselves live as well

Answer 8

I don't think either s*x has it "harder" than the other.  I think that you just hear more about women than men.  I'm sorry, but if I met a man that slept with most of the town, I probably wouldn't be diggin on him.  There is also, house husbands.  They are not neccisarily lazy, just doing what needs to be done in the household.  And there are single moms and single dads.  both have all the responsibility of being both parents.  How is it that people stop using common sense and start listining to what the world says about them.  Maybe women should stop whining about what everyone says about them and not be the one people talk about by the actions they take.  then we wouldn't hear about it so much.  and yes, I am a women.  

Answer 9

i like how someone wrote, men have to work, like women dont.....

defiantly females, and the reasons are endless, but a big one is the double standers, and all the physical pain. no matter what it is females have it worse. No offense to the guys, the go through stuff too, it just worse for us.

~vicky~

Answer 10

Definitely. I agree with all of those statements. I truly don't understand why we are frowned upon so much, even with the little things we do.

Another example is when women get tattoos or piercings. Many men find it trashy, even when most women think it's cute or out there. If men have tattoos or piercings, it's all right. It's so stupid!

Not to mention, we get periods, we have to give birth, we go through menopause, and we have to deal with the vast amount of stupid men.

Oh--and if we're just a little overweight, we're seen as pigs. If men are overweight, it's all like, oh, it's okay for guys to have that, it's just a beer gut. We actually appreciate men, while many men don't appreciate us.

Answer 11

Absolutely women. There is no question.

We are expected to work outside the home, do the majority of the housework, meals and shopping, raise the children & attend to their needs, and somehow sitll look pretty and keep our figures. Huh.

I swear, if men had to bear and raise children, the human race would have been extinct long, long ago.

Answer 12

Men because they have only one choice in life ,,,, Women have more options as to what they can do  in life ,,,, They have the option of being single or  married or wife with or without children or work and pursue a career or they can choose to do them all ,,,,The man only has one choice in life ,,,, He has to work whether he's married or not plus if he chooses to marry then he's got the added duties entailed with that ,,,,

Some of the women who responded to this question listed a number of things and included bras ,,,, What I don't understand is what law says that a woman has to wear a bra in the first place ,,,, Check the list of options ladies and compare the ones you have against that of what's available for the male ,,,, Then ask yourself who has it rougher and then still choose females ,,,,  LOL

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Answer 13

Without the societal pressures to be a certain way, women still have it harder. They have everything that goes along with menstruation and let me tell you, once a month comes around quickly. Some women have really serious fertility problems and others have a terrible time when menopause comes around. They have to worry about getting pregnant and then once they do get pregnant have to deal with all of that. But women are allowed to be more emotional and express their feelings and be close to their friends while men are supposed to be more reserved and aloof. There are trade offs on both sides. Women also get to wear much cooler clothes and makeup is always fun.    

Answer 14

GIRLS!!!

1. periods

2. makeup

3. hair

4. pregnancy

5. stereotypes (s***s, lazy..etc)

6. suffer from more discrimination

7. weaker build, are more defenseless

8. 1 word...mommy.

9. bras

10. waxing/shaving/nair....ugh

11. must dress to impress

Guys...

1. shower

2. work

3. put gel in hair...

4. use bathroom

5. hold wifes hand in the delivery room

6. usually not neccessary to dress to impress...

But I will say that Guys can have it harder on them emotionally at times.  I'm a girl so I don't know first hand, but I don't think it would be easy to have to be the "Strong" one.  Guys can't cry or express themselves as much as girls.  It must be frustrating when you can only alternate between being happy, and angry...no other emotions allowed.  I mean seriously, I even hear of guys getting made fun of for playing soccer because it isn't manly.

Answer 15

Women for sure, we have periods, hormones, post menopause, then menopause. Child birth, house work, and job work, take care of family, please stupid man. They really should give us a medal of honor!!!  

Answer 16

females-- for all your reasons and they have to go through labor which is not too fun, they get PMS every month, who makes dinner? 9 out of 10 are women. they do the cleaning, wash, dishes, there are  some who are lucky enough to have husbands that help but that is hard to come by. most men just go to work and come home and do what they want. what a life

Answer 17

Here we go again, another feminist crying foul. A man has to work really hard to support his family or be labelled a bum. A woman doesn't. Men work virtually on everything, even finding a wife and having s*x. We are the ones who have to overcome inhibitions and make the first move. In bed, we do all the work too, while you can just lie there and go "what a waste" or "okay but can do better". Then we also have to be good fathers to our kids, trying really hard to be around for them even when work stipulates that we are away. Please, women have it much easier.  

Answer 18

women for sure, but they don't see they also get all the perks.

man can not feel the true wonderment of childbirth.

women tend to forget when it come down to who has the true power, they control half of the money in the world and all of P***y  

Answer 19

Sorry but there appears t be a lot of confusion here

Men ALSO go to school, ALSO have drama, ALSO have friends, ALSO look after our hair(straighten mine),men ALSO keep up with the style everytime,DO worry about looks,AMAZINGLY we also have to stay fit, ALSO often lose weight.>Answering "Dee_Wants_a_giraffe"

Ok women have a lot of weird bodily issues and tighter social issues but men have a much higher suicidal rate than women, suffer more from depression. This nearly swung my point but child birth for women puts them just ahead.

Answer 20

i would say women, but it works both ways.

i bet men get sick of being called cheats all the time, just like we get sick of being called whores etc.

overall i would say that women have the rough end of the stick, but its not to say we cant be the best that we can be and just live our life anyway.

we also have periods and have to give birth. !

Answer 21

As a guy I think it's probably harder being a woman. Although I have to comment on the s*x issue. It takes far less effort for a woman to have s*x with a strange man than vica-versa. In my opinion that's what accounts for the difference in s*x-related stereotypes. Let the thumbs fly down.

Answer 22

Men because even in today's society they are usually expected to be the bread winner.  Then, once they bring home the bacon they are expected to do household chores, help rear the children, complete the "Honey-Do" lists, etc.  They are supposed to always have the answer, always be able to fix the broken things.  And have to maintain a macho attitude through it all.  

Women may have a hard time with jobs but there ARE some things men can do that women can not.  I am all about equal opportunity, and when a woman finds her niche with work she can get to the top of the totem pole.  There is also the societal pressure to look good all the time, but why is that?  Because we continue to do it.  If all women started walking around like slobs, and said to heck with it, society would eventually (<--- the key word) accept that everything is not about weight, and beauty.

I do not think that listing giving birth, periods etc are topics to debate about who has it harder.  Women are made for that, men aren't.  It is as simple as that.  There is not a thing we can do about that.  It is beyond our control, and blaming our hardships on those things only brings us down another notch, letting it appear we are weaker.

Answer 23

I say both do they compete with one another weather we think so or not and not every one has the same view.I say men carry the weight of taking care of the family no mater if the woman is working or not. It's bred into men they work they bring in the money and have to be there for the family even if the woman is working or not. The womans role is take care of kids clean house, and cook even if she is working or not. It's been known that woman are more prone to higher stress levels though.

Answer 24

This argument could go both ways.....What about the man who stays at home to look after the kids, run's the house?

I did this for 18 months when my wife went out to work and the grief I got off men was appalling "what sort of man washes dishes, changes nappies etc..your not a real man." were the responses I got off male friends, and even women considered it wrong for me to take on the role of "house parent" as it was not natural!

Eventually money was the factor that changed things as I could earn more than my wife and I did not have to put up with the c**p she did by employers.

In my opinion male or female, you will get grief if you stray from the "norm" of society, it's just narrow minded people who are yet to experience any different.

Answer 25

I think women too. When i stayed at home with our kids, i didn't work AS hard as him. He said he would start helping me cook , clean & take care of our 3 kids when i went bk. to work. Well, here i am working & I'm a realtor so i still don't work as hard as him. So i still do it ALL!  There is such a double standard with most men. I sucks t*t!

Answer 26

I really agree with you.

Back in the old days the woman were expected to stay at home and cook, clean, do that. While the men went to work and 'brought home the bacon.'

Now, women work, and sometimes if they get more money then their husbands, the men feel 'inadequate', because they didn't bring all that money, just some of it. Do you know what I mean?

Men sleeping around isn't odd or wrong to other men, but when a woman sleeps around, 'Oh she's a hooker, and a pervert'. Just like you said. I really don't understand it.  

Answer 27

women. although i think everyone is going to say their own s*x because they experience it, and everyone thinks they have it the worst. yea i agree with what you said and also we get our periods and give birth and we spend more on beauty and do more painful stuff for beauty like wax and if we have s*x and get pregnant the guy runs away and we were considered lower in society before womens sufferage so we had to deal with that and people still are sexist towards women.

wow run on sentance much?

Answer 28

Women, for sure.

And I'm not just saying that because I'm female, it's the truth.

We are wives, mothers, friends, sisters, employees...

We have all these responsibilities that a lot men neglect in their lives.

Answer 29

hmm I definitely think women, this may be controversial but I think feminists have made life even harder for women by putting even more pressures on them. Now they have both home and work duties while men still only have work. However I'm very grateful not to have testicals. =D

Answer 30

Females, they are always under estimated, and somehow its acceptable in our society for the female to be regarded as the underdog by default. Its not fair, not to mention all the stuff of giving birth and been automatically expected to not only have the pain of birth, but to raise the child, and it is also fine for the father to vanish off the scene and just send a cheque now and again. Its not fair one bit.

Thus, females have it much harder in life than us males.

Answer 31

women you have to go threw period,childbirth,school,drama,friends,m... up,hair,keep up with the style everytime,beauty,stay fit lose weight ,if we do something wrong you get called names,either have b***s to small or too big,cosmetic surgery and we do it for the guys.