What shall I do if a girl in my form next year is apparently a bully?

Question

I am very scared about next year because there will be a girl in my form called Anna who is apparently a bully and a *****. My friend Jess who used to go to her primary school said she was bullied by her. I have met Anna very briefly on transfer day. I don't recall her being nasty then but perhaps she was nervous? I don't know what to do or how to act next year. I'm really scared she'll pick on my because I am quite shy.

Answer 1

if she is in ur class ask ur parents or ur princeple to switch u to a different class i did that before and it worked and dont tell them because she is bothering u because then there just gonna talk to anna to stop bothering and they wont switch you sooo i gess u tell them this: generly there are alot of people in my class picking on me say ALOT! so then they dont have to tell everyone to stop bothering you! i said that so then the principle said ok! and then life was better when i switched GOOD LUCK HOPED U DONT BE WITH DAT GIRL ANNA!!!!!! :D

Answer 2

Bullies are notoriously insecure and actually quite cowardly, as they choose what appears to them as an easy target that either won't fight back or is afraid of them so that the bully remains fearful and strong in the eyes of his peers...

This is of course nonsense and all it takes to set a bully in the right direction is choose a moment in time where you catch them off guard and surprise them with a devastating blow...

Make it a good one...such as when they are least expecting it, take your fist and punch them as hard as you can with a follow thru punch to the upper portion of the stomach,  this will assuredly incapacitate them for several minutes, allowing time to have a brief conversation with them informing them of the consequences of ever thinking of touching you again....Then walk away.

Don't be afraid to smash them in the face if you feel so inclined, only if they've hit you...

99.9% of any bully will be embarrassed and will never think of crossing you again...

Trust me, I've used this tactic several times...

I know this is advocating violence, but sometimes you have to face these people, and they seem to respond to that sort of lesson so much better than talking....

Also, don't assume she was weak or nervous, of course she was nervous, she was sizing up her next victim, make her assumption that your an easy target a mistake...

Don't brag about it, trust me, word will travel and you'll look even better if you never mention it, also don't take to antagonizing her... Leave her alone, she most definitely will leave you alone from that point on...Good Luck..

Answer 3

Relax. I know it will be hard, but try to get to know this Anna and become friedly with her. Act casual and don't show her that you are too shy. Email me if you need more help ever...

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