What shall i do, i got 3 kids and have been married for 6 years & my husband does'nt show any love or interest

Question

There is no love or affection. i cant live with someone like that.

Answer 1

leave him with the kids and come round, jealously will kick in and he'll come running round here to duff me up to get you back!

Anything for you.

Answer 2

San get into some counseling for yourself first to figure out what your feelings are.  BTW this was osted in hockey questions.

Answer 3

let him know this bothers you greatly, if he doesn't change soon.. then do what you gotta do.. you can't be miserable forever..

Answer 4

He shoots he scores!!!!!!

Answer 5

Divorce Chris Pronger and your life will get better.

Answer 6

Was he always like that?  Do you think he could be having an affair?  Can you talk to him about it?  Perhaps it could be time for some good old fashioned romance, could you get your parents to have the children for a weekend whilst you two get away?  I am with you though, I would find that hard to live with. xx

Answer 7

yeah well after 3 kids, you both probably need a break together.  3 kids take your life away, so don't be too hard on the old man, you're probably both just knackered...

Answer 8

There was probably a time when one or both of you just went private with your thoughts & feelings and communication stopped, or there was an issue one of you felt negative about the other and it never got talked about.  That's the kind of stuff that makes affection and love die.  Maybe this is the case with your husband and how he is dealing with it.

You can get back what you had - go to relate or something that can help you work things through.

Answer 9

Have someone babysit your children at their house.  Take extra care "landscaping" yourself by bathing in a heavenly scented bath, shave your legs all other parts, then moisturize with a really good thick sweet smelling lotion.  Make sure you give yourself a pedicure to make your feet beautiful.  Take extra care applying makeup and styling your hair.  Then put on a silky, short robe/wrap, and when you're husband arrives home, greet him at the door, shut the door, then drop the robe/wrap down to your feet and wear nothing but a smile on your face.  Make sure you've prepared a nice light tasty meal ahead of time, along with dessert, and wine/drinks.  Also, light candles everywhere.  Good luck!  Even though I've never experienced no love or affection from mine, but I've always done this over the years.  We love it!

Answer 10

Maybe you should ask yourself why he shows you no love or affection. You'd probably learn a great deal about your marriage, your family and yourself.

Not to sound boarish but, 3 kids in 6 years is a tall pill to swollow and chances are that it simply all happened too quickly and that going through that was all very difficult. You will likely need to make an effort, both of you, to relearn what romance and love is considering that for the past 6 years, there's a good chance that neither of you have a good nights sleep while taking care of kids.

Bring him to a marriage counsellor.