What shall i do i need my babys to have a daddy?

Question

well i dont know what to do i sit at home my husband has died in army servises and i have to kids twins to daughters named erica and hailey joe but they dont have a dady i got no money i got to collage but not for long i have to drop out becuase of my income but i have to people to pick from to be my babys daddy i got brandon blonde hair blue eyes and hes id a real gental man and we got sweet cute awsome cain help my babys need a daddy

brian was there daddy my savior our soilder

In Memory Of Brian dewain kooey with love deep in the heart of texas

Answer 1

Wow, I am impressed by what you are doing. I can only imagine how much strength and selflessness it must take to focus on your children and what they need - even through the most difficult time of your life. I am so sorry for your loss, and your children's loss! I have no idea what I would do if I was in your position. I guess I would try to find a strong, honest, loyal type father figure.

And also, to the person who said that kids don't need a father, here are some sad statistics that have been proven through studies:

- 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes

- 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless home

- 85% of all children that exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes

- 80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes

- 71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes

- 70% of juveniles in state operated institutions come from fatherless homes

- 85% of all youths sitting in prisons grew up in a fatherless home

Answer 2

You have a husband? In a question you asked a month ago you were 14 years old, and asking if you were too young to do "ya know wat" (to quote you) with your boyfriend.

I think maybe you should log off the computer for a while, get out into the fresh air, and enjoy the weekend instead of posting untrue things here. It'll be much more satisfying for you!  

Answer 3

use spell checker, that's what it's there for.

Answer 4

just out of curiosity would brian really just want you to go and find the kids another dad straight away? not all kids need a dad. as long as they have one parent that is all that counts. to me it just sounds like you need to get a job and start paying for your own way and im so sorry for your loss of your sweetheart.its got to be the worst feeling but hmm kids they bounce back and they need to be  taught who their dad was and what he did and why he is not around anymore but he will always be with you all in spirit as any father would not want to leave his 3 girls. take care and rethink what you asked. i know you will be lonely for a while but the issue is your daughters safety and maybe you could finish college part time instead of full time and apply for a scholarship. or ask a company to back you if you dont ask you will never know if they would back you or not.take care

Answer 5

Sorry to hear about your husband, being a one parent child i don't think i turned out to bad just let them no they are loved. And for you in time someone might come along that is ment for you good luck in the future.

Answer 6

with all the mistakes in that text i would definatly do anything you can to stay in college

children dont need a daddy if they have a good mother